Acknowledgment
A person who regularly appears in an environment you frequent, such as a university or workplace, may not have thought of you even once. It’s as if you were decoration in their life.
An object that moves, empty of purpose or personality. You, as an individual, do not exist in their mind, in their life. Like so many people we encounter on the street, who mean nothing to us.
After a while, you hear them comment on something that describes you, whether directly to you or to someone else in the room. And it’s not one of those times when the person imagines what you’re like without knowing you.
Even if it was a short comment, it was spot on, meaning the person took the time to analyze you. You have come to exist in their mind. You are now a living being that occupies a space in their life, even if not completely detailed.
At the moment they analyzed you, imagine that an imaginary line connecting both of you started to exist. This line is like a thread of attention and recognition.
It is subtle, but it carries enormous symbolic weight: the acknowledgment that you’ve been noticed, deciphered, categorized in some way. Your existence has been validated by the other.
This “thread” has power. Even though it’s something so intangible, it can change how you feel about the person. Before, you were just a distant figure, but now there’s an exchange — even if minimal — of meaning.
The person dedicated an instant of their conscious attention to you, and that moment is enough to fill the void between you.
The Invisible Threads Between Us
You can glimpse in this thread a bit of yourself, like your reputation, your qualities and flaws, often hidden from your own perception. The fact is, we draw attention to something authentic in us.
Being noticed, in this case, isn’t just a compliment to our existence, but to our essence — with all the nuances, imperfections, and aspects that perhaps we ourselves don’t fully recognize.
Some may devalue this thread. Wanting to go through life unnoticed is a desire to avoid negative attention, controlling as much as possible how many people are in your life.
It’s an attempt to limit the number of interactions, reducing the chances of being misinterpreted, judged, or seen negatively.
It’s a mechanism of self-protection, a way to avoid the vulnerabilities that arise when we become visible in the eyes of others.
By avoiding being noticed, you also give up the connections that could enrich your perception of yourself and the world. After all, these threads are also gateways to recognition, growth, and even affection.
To completely deny the value of these threads is to ignore an essential dimension of the human experience: interaction. Being seen by the other is, in a way, being reminded that we exist. And avoiding this completely may lead us to an isolated life.
By valuing these threads, you gain access to a better environment, where you can develop these connections with intention.
You also have greater influence, being able to cause a greater impact around you for whatever it is you desire. Not to mention the ability to learn from possible negativity, which gives you more chances to develop.
Being seen is, in the end, an opportunity to exist in a fuller and truer way, creating a legacy that goes beyond our physical presence, touching the lives of those around us.
For better or for worse, these interactions, even those that may seem small or uncomfortable, have the power to transform us, to help us understand better who we are and how we impact the world.
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Bzzz, Felipe! Essa reflexão sobre o poder de ser notado é muito pertinente! Acho que muitas pessoas anseiam por isso, pois é um indício de que estão vivas e existem no universo alheio, mesmo que seja por um momento fugaz. #hivebr
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Your post was manually curated by @shiftrox.Getting noticed can be a real pain in the ass sometimes
That's a good suggestion. That habit would leave you finding friends everywhere you go.