It is my first time posting at the ThroughFulDailyPost Community which is exciting. The topic today about "Blood thicker than water". The prompt helped me to understand a bit better this quote which isn't used in Brazil to relate to family bonds. But I totally understand since it makes sense. Scientifically speaking, blood is water plus lots of proteins, cells and other molecules, while water, at least filtered water, you can find only some minerals. That can be associated with how our family bonds can be stronger compared to other relationships and things in our lives. I can say for sure that at home our blood is thicker for sure than water.
When I think about family, I consider two different layers. The first layer is my house: my wife and my two daughters. And the second layer comes to my parents and brother. The first layer always gets more attention and care. The second layer I could say that it is an intermediary between my first layer and the external relationships. I want to help if possible, always but I wouldn't do craziness and self-sacrifice, since I am a person used to do that and I feel that when I make some self-sacrifice the other way never does so why keep doing it? My first layer of family, my main family is what I built so I would do whatever I could to keep the machinery spinning.
It is an interesting topic right now because my wife had to travel for work. And I am single parenting for 15 days. I am taking care of the house, also preparing school snacks, lunch, dinner, driving to extracurricular activities and more all on my own to keep the routine of two small kids. I had to ask my supervisor to work part-time at work every day and work totally remotely on Fridays, since my 7-year-old is out of school at 3:30 PM, except on Fridays when she has half days at school, so 11:45 AM she is off from school. Right now my job is trying to conciliate with family, not the inverse.
My job is just a means to get money so my family can have a normal life. And whenever I can I also try some side jobs like I mentioned before in other posts. Extra money is always good, so we can think of an extra trip as we always talk about it. Their happiness is my fuel to keep working. When I see my daughters excited with something I feel happy. The bricks that we assembled at home built something marvelous. I can consider me a good parent, even with some mistakes that can appear once in a while.
These tight bonds that we created at home, I hope that my daughters continue with the family that they are going to build. And that bonds should make them happy, that is the most important part. Any bond that only gives you unhappiness isn't something worth investing in. So blood can be thicker than water, but that can't be a rule, it should be felt by us.
É minha primeira vez postando na Comunidade ThroughFulDailyPost, o que é emocionante. O tópico de hoje é sobre "Sangue mais espesso que água". O prompt me ajudou a entender um pouco melhor essa citação que não é usada no Brasil para se relacionar com laços familiares. Mas eu entendo totalmente, pois faz sentido. Cientificamente falando, sangue é água mais muitas proteínas, células e outras moléculas, enquanto água, pelo menos água filtrada, você pode encontrar apenas alguns minerais. Isso pode ser associado a como nossos laços familiares podem ser mais fortes em comparação a outros relacionamentos e coisas em nossas vidas. Posso dizer com certeza que em casa nosso sangue é mais espesso do que água.
Quando penso em família, considero duas camadas diferentes. A primeira camada é minha casa: minha esposa e minhas duas filhas. E a segunda camada vem para meus pais e irmão. A primeira camada sempre recebe mais atenção e cuidado. A segunda camada eu poderia dizer que é um intermediário entre minha primeira camada e os relacionamentos externos. Eu quero ajudar se possível, sempre, mas eu não faria loucuras e auto-sacrifício, já que sou uma pessoa acostumada a fazer isso e sinto que quando faço algum auto-sacrifício o outro nunca faz, então por que continuar fazendo isso? Minha primeira camada de família, minha família principal é o que eu construí, então eu faria tudo o que pudesse para manter a máquina girando.
É um tópico interessante agora porque minha esposa teve que viajar a trabalho. E eu estou sendo pai solteiro há 15 dias. Estou cuidando da casa, também preparando lanches escolares, almoço, jantar, dirigindo para atividades extracurriculares e muito mais, tudo sozinha para manter a rotina de duas crianças pequenas. Tive que pedir ao meu supervisor para trabalhar meio período no trabalho todos os dias e trabalhar totalmente remotamente às sextas-feiras, já que minha filha de 7 anos sai da escola às 15h30, exceto nas sextas-feiras, quando ela tem meio período na escola, então às 11h45 ela está de folga da escola. No momento, meu trabalho é tentar conciliar com a família, não o inverso.
Meu trabalho é apenas um meio de conseguir dinheiro para que minha família possa ter uma vida normal. E sempre que posso, também tento alguns empregos paralelos, como mencionei antes em outros posts. Dinheiro extra é sempre bom, então podemos pensar em uma viagem extra, pois sempre falamos sobre isso. A felicidade delas é meu combustível para continuar trabalhando. Quando vejo minhas filhas animadas com algo, fico feliz. Os tijolos que montamos em casa construíram algo maravilhoso. Posso me considerar um bom pai, mesmo com alguns erros que podem aparecer de vez em quando.
Esses laços fortes que criamos em casa, espero que minhas filhas continuem com a família que elas vão construir. E que esses laços devem fazê-las felizes, essa é a parte mais importante. Qualquer laço que só lhe dê infelicidade não é algo em que vale a pena investir. Então o sangue pode ser mais espesso que a água, mas isso não pode ser uma regra, deve ser sentido por nós.
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I love how you put your family you built first before any other blood relationship.
I totally agree with everything you said
Yeah thanks for the compliment
I support it that happiness must be there for us to call it a bond and understand that it's worthy of keeping, because when joy is not felt in a family the bond feels broken, I like it that you are being the best Dad to your daughters, continue to have a good time 🥰🙏
Thanks for the comment!! Yeah i try my best :)
You are welcome 🥰🙏
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