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“Blood is thicker than water”.... An idiom that, in a nutshell, means that our personal relationships and the things we do are less important than family. Do you agree? If not... If you agree, how has this phrase made you reflect on your family relationships?
Sometimes we think that we have detached ourselves from the family or move away and whatever happens in it, we only accompany or give strength so that the family member who requires it continues to move forward, I believe that this is the duty to be. Each one in his own way, attentive but not stop doing things of us for others.
As it is explained or explained by people who write books on the subjects of spirituality, interpersonal relationships or family relationships, even relationships with oneself.
Within the relationships with oneself there is precisely the theme of healing those relationships individually, if there are moments that we must move away, it is always done in peace, for mental and emotional health, this leads us to understand in a colder way, although I do not mean to abandon others, but cold because we begin to understand the types of people or personalities that exist in a family.
Some manage to catch us in their fears, others in their duels, others in their doubts, others in their low emotions...sometimes or always we must learn to look at the external without including ourselves in them.
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The blood should not be left behind but we should refine those thoughts or loyalties just because we are families.
Currently, I live a case where that person every time he calls the brothers is to say that economically he is low or scarce of money, being that his monthly finances are in good percentage in relation to the others that compose the family circle, there it is like an annoyance of why they do not manage with their expenses or priorities, they always like to say that they have many needs, and they forget the needs that the others have and they are solving and looking for how to increase their income.
This has brought as I said in the previous paragraph discomfort but that discomfort has brought health consequences in some because it is not what should happen there.
In another way of looking at this situation, because of the weight of the blood, there are health situations that affect even the skin, others insomnia because it is thought that this person is having a bad time and it is not so.
Therefore I maintain, it has been a little and long the way to understand and to take to the practice of going to the rhythm of their thoughts when they say the situation is bad, to answer if it is true the situation is bad and up to there I get that conversation without details (as they say in the popular slang not to get hooked).
Nothing simple but healthy, my therapist made me see it...something that I denied but it is necessary to practice this way of understanding this phrase...besides when it is necessary always as relatives we go to the call, not at the moment when there are complaints towards the financial situation...when it is necessary the presence of each one demonstrates that the blood has power.
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«La sangre es más espesa que el agua»... Un modismo que, en pocas palabras, significa que nuestras relaciones personales y las cosas que hacemos son menos importantes que la familia. ¿Estás de acuerdo? Si no... ¿por qué no? Si estás de acuerdo, ¿cómo te ha hecho reflexionar esta frase en tus relaciones familiares?
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«La sangre es más espesa que el agua»... Un modismo que, en pocas palabras, significa que nuestras relaciones personales y las cosas que hacemos son menos importantes que la familia. ¿Estás de acuerdo? Si no... ¿por qué no? Si estás de acuerdo, ¿cómo te ha hecho reflexionar esta frase en tus relaciones familiares?
En ocasiones pensamos que nos hemos desprendido de la familia o alejarnos y lo que suceda en ella solo acompañamos o damos fuerzas para que el familiar que lo requiera siga adelante, considero que este es el deber ser. Cada quien en su camino, atentos pero no dejar de hacer cosas de nosotros por otros.
Como se explica o lo explican personajes que escriben libros sobre los temas de espriritualidad, relaciones interpersonales o relaciones familiares, hasta las relaciones con uno mismo.
Dentro de las relaciones con uno mismo està precisamente ese tema de sanar individualmente esas relaciones, si hay momentos que se debe alejar se hace siempre en sana paz, por salud mental y emocional, esto nos lleva a comprender de una manera mas frìa aunque no me refiero de abandonar a otros sino frìa porque comenzamos a entender los tipos de personas o personalidades que hay en una familia.
Unos logran atraparnos en sus miedos, otros en sus duelos, otros en sus dudas, otros en sus emociones bajas...a veces o siempre debemos aprender a mirar lo externo sin incluirnos de fondo en ellos.
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La sangre no debemos dejarla pero si perfeccionar esos pensamientos o lealtades solo por ser familias.
Actualmente, vivo un caso donde esa persona cada vez que llama a los hermanos es para decir que econòmicamente està bajo o escaso de dinero, siendo que sus finanzas mensuales son en buen porcentaje en relaciòn a los otros que componen el circulo familiar , allì es como una molestia de porquè no se manejan con sus gastos o prioridades, les gusta siempre decir que tienen muchas necesidades, y se olvidan de las necesidades que los demàs tienen y estàn resolviendo y buscando como aumentar sus ingresos.
Esto ha traido como lo dije en pàrrafo anterior molestia pero esa molestia ha traìdo consecuencias de salud en algunos porque no es lo que debe ocurrir allì.
En otra forma de ver esta situaciòn por ese peso de la sangre vienen situaciones de salud que afecta hasta la piel, otras insomnio porque se piensa que esta persona la està pasando mal y no es asi.
Por ello mantengo, ha sido un poco y largo el camino para entender y llevar a la pràctica de ir al ritmo de los pensamientos de ellos cuando dicen la situaciòn està mala responder si si es verdad la situaciòn està mala y hasta allì llegue esa conversaciòn sin detalles(Como se dice en el argot popular no engancharse).
Nada sencillo pero saludable, me lo hizo ver mi terapeuta...algo que negaba pero si hay que practicar esa forma de entender esa frase...ademàs cuando sea necesario siempre como familiares acudimos al llamado , no de momento cuando hay quejas hacia la situaciòn financiera...cuando es necesaria la presencia cada uno demuestra que la sangre tiene poder.
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It's important to support our family in any way we can, but unfortunately, there are instances where family (blood) has caused harm. Despite this, many still hold love for their family, while some may not. It is the reason why some people choose not to assist their family in certain situations.
Additionally, there are selfish individuals who prioritize themselves above all else; such people have no excuse for not supporting their family.
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