Reading through this is obvious you like your privacy and I think you will have to open up a little so you and your partner can get to work well together.
All the best @penderis, I know you will come back and give us a feedback that it wasn't so hard after all.
I would like to think I am not so cheap as to tell everything, maybe they must first wine and dine me a bit :P !PIZZA
Hehehe, that is fair enough.
Good luck with the challenge @penderis.
What level of vintage knowledge do you require?