I know, there's something 'wrong' in the appearance of a pregnant lady puffing on a cigarette! But I absolutely know firsthand how addictive smoking is and how difficult to give up... even for a baby. But it's hard to have sympathy and not to judge. But on the other hand, I know pregnant women who would happily eat fast food every day, and in my mind that's just as harmful to a baby in the womb as smoking!
It's so interesting finding out all the ways in which us 'healthy people' have been transformed from our old choices and habits, and what lead us on our journeys!
p.s. my fav dessert too is cheesecake, but now I make a healthy version and it's actually nicer than the way I used to make it, so I'm still happy! :-)