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RE: Hive-Naija Weekend Engagement #41 - "Dealing With Anger"

in Speak Peace β€’ 2 years ago (edited)

Greetings My Hive Brethren! πŸ™Œ I don finally land 🀩

It's another amazing weekend at Sam's hangout and here's a big shout out to Foxy @quduus1 ❀️ for suggesting this interesting topic 😊.

What do you do when you are angry?

Anger is an emotion I simply detest! It feels like something is eating me deep inside. I know I can't avoid being angry but I can control it and choose not to stay angry. This is so that I don't end up taking regrettable actions. And here's what I do when I'm angry:

  • Firstly, I let that person know what I'm feeling. I used to hide it before but not anymore because it makes me feel restless. Sometimes, people unknowingly provoke us and they need to be told! πŸ˜’

  • Secondly, I walk away when I'm too furious and efforts to resolve the issue prove futile. Especially with elders or parents... Talking back at them would seem rude and disrespectful so I just let them talk, then walk away 🚢. This method no easy at all, it requires a great deal of self-discipline and restraint.

  • Lastly, I try to relax myself when I'm angry and don't want anybody to know. How do I relax? Well, I just take deep breaths, avoid stress, chop better food, drink water, listen to music, sleep or go for a walk outside πŸ™‚.

Do you get harsh at everything in your surrounding, break things, shout, or walk out

To be honest, I get harsh. I fit scream if na bad network dey vex me. Walahi, nothing pisses me off like slow internet. If my family hears me scream at my phone they already know wetin dey sup πŸ˜‚... For other severe reasons, I may just be speaking in harsh tones and squeezing my face but I no dey break anything biko 🀲. I no too get wahala πŸ˜‚... And yeah like I mentioned earlier, I walk out too.

What's up @neckkyjane1548, @kushyzee61 and @jmis10164 πŸ˜ƒ... Welcome to @sam.hangout, na here Naija people dey gather for weekends like this oo. I'm inviting you guys to hop on this fun train, share your thoughts, engage and win the prizes πŸ€—β€οΈ. @charlrific were art thou? πŸ‘€ πŸ˜—

Dimma out! πŸš€

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Damn...I really haven't been active hereπŸ‘€
Thanks a lot for the tag @dimmablogs 😊.

Anger can really be an burdensome emotion and it can also be very uncomfortable when we permit it to take control of us.

To be honest, I get harsh. I fit scream if na bad network dey vex me. Walahi, nothing pisses me off like slow internet.

OmoπŸ˜‚! This is actually very true. Nothing frustrates me more that slow network, especially when I'm trying to do something very importantπŸ˜©β— Infact, I think it's my quickest way to serious anger. It requires a lot of patience and self-control to not run mad ooπŸ˜‚

You're welcome 😊. If you want, you can ask Sam to add you to the tags so you'll always be notified.

Yes oo, very uncomfortable indeed!

πŸ˜… Abi, you sef can relate... The thing is annoying mehn. If not for God I for don dey run mad πŸ˜‚.

Everybody sha like food heeeeheeeπŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚ mama talk say she go chop better foodπŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚. Na only that part burst my bubbles e be like say na here my fellow food lovers DeyπŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚.

πŸ˜‚πŸ˜… Omo naso oo, nothing less. Once I just chop better food, the anger sef no fit dey again...

Haha, all my fellow foodies on hive πŸ˜‚πŸ˜βœŒοΈ

I see say you dey change dpπŸ˜‹@dimmablogs you dey hot yunno go like show me way 🀲πŸ₯ΊπŸ˜‚.

πŸ˜‚πŸŒš I just dey oo... Me sef dey find way πŸ₯ΊπŸ€²

To be honest, I get harsh. I fit scream if na bad network dey vex me. Walahi, nothing pisses me off like slow internet. If my family hears me scream at my phone they already know wetin dey sup πŸ˜‚

Better, I was thinking of maybe you'd break a mirror or throw your laptop or phone away like the oyinbos do in movies. You'd just be getting ready your people to throw you out of the house then.🀣🀣

Lol na real life we dey so, how pesin go break phone and laptop because of anger... Maybe that one is for rich kids πŸ˜‚

Exactly, rich kids o. I mean who does that..? Throw iPhone - $1200 dollars or smash it on the floor. Make I just lay my hand on that one that was smashed lasan.. I don blow be that o🀣