Yay! It's another @sam.hangout weekend engagement, thanks for the tag, yet another interesting topic Thanks @quduus1
Hmm, Anger, the truth every human is meant to feel anger, whether expected or not, so how do we manage it, for me, the first thing I try to do is walk out of the scene,if this doesn't work, try as much as possible to say less while angry because some foolish words are usually made out of anger,if the person you are angry with keeps saying hurtful words to provoke you, try plugging your earpiece or airpod to avoid hearing what they are saying to further provoke you.
Although sometimes, i feel the rage burst out everything in my mind, and then I receive my PEACE, instead of carrying the anger around or having the person in mind.
@treasuree @constanceitohan @mosesessien come and join the weekend hangout
I am coming o
We are waiting for you 🥵.
Hehehehe 🤣🤣🤣 some people are just so annoying and strong headed but I think I like your method it's kinda cooly strange 🤣😂🤣😂🤣
Haha as long as it works for me, after trying all methods, when you tried to avoid the angerbanf it still keeps coming, you have no choice than to face it squarely, just have it at the back of your mind that you are facing it to get it resolved .
Hehehe you na guru oh, please comman teach me oh hehehehe
I no be guru o, it just depends in the circumstance involved
Hehehe 🤣🤣🤣 you are strange hehehehe 🤣🤣🤣 I hail you oh, I respect you
Na life experiences cause am jare
Heheh 🤣🤣🤣 you na big woman oh lolz I am not experience is the best teacher my AUNTY 😂
Omoor, that statement is deep 0..!!🤣
That's true sha but you have good ideas ❤️.
Thank you☺
You're welcome 😊
Is it not teach that she is already teaching you so 🙄.
Hehehe 🤣🤣🤣 you this girl is here AGAIN 😂🤣😂🤣
Hello sweetheart, did you miss me? 😁🤧
Mtchew 😏 who is your sweet heart abeg shift 🤨🤭🤭
Will he even listen or apply this method?
😂😂, I am full now and ready for fox 🦊😉
That's good to know, I'm already seeing you every where, hehehe.
😂😂😂😂
MTN
EVERYWHERE YOU GO! 😃
Wait so that quduus is FOX..Foxy?
Wow!!
Yes, he prefers to be called fox 🦊 or foxy 🦊😂👍
Nice, it's a good advise to have the mind of resolving the issue before facing it squarely.
Heheh yeah that is indeed true I stand with my beloved hope
Thank you for standing with me, can I stroll now? 😂🥵
Hehehehe 🤣🤣🤣 lolz you are in need of deliverance 🤣🤣🤣
Smiles, thank you 🙂
Yes people like you sometimes sha 🤧🤧.
Heheh 🤣🤣🤣 hope you don start again but this week we will share love my love 😘
Who love help
Mtchewww 😏
Hehehehehe 😂😂😂 you go talk am again my Love
Lolz, why she go talk am again?
No prob 🙂🙂🙂 sebi na you be supporter they go soon serve you too
Hahaha 😂😂
Awwn, no wahala, I do not mind sharing at all 😁😤
Hehehe 🤣🤣🤣 see you old woman
You are calling me old woman and you don't use to greet me 🙄
Better apply it🤫😏😏😉
I work out most times to prevent unwanted outcomes
Yea, if it works for you, great then
Hehehe I surely will because seeing that person face will make the anger more extreme
Exactly
Heheh 🤣🤣🤣 that is why I just go far away as possible because I can break the person head aswear 🤫🤫🤫
I think you should break one someday. At least people go dey fear you small. Or what do you think?
Abi oo.
Ah!!! I don't know why I feel like taking this personally 😂😂.
Heheh like you are high abi🤣😂
I'm not, I'm very low 🥵
Eyah peeele oh, you go get better hehehehe 🤣🤣🤣
I think I am starting to be scared of you o. You're feel like taking or personal ke?😒
Hahaha, don't worry you will not understand, it's between me and Foxy 😅😅
AHn, so I have been sidelined..😭
But what if it doesn't?
Ohhhh it does actually very very
Hmm, okay that's good then.
Hmmmm I hear you ma, 🤞
Yes Foxy ✌️
No wonder you always like walking out on me, no problem I have learned now 🥰👍.
Heheh 🤣🤣 yeah when I am angry I just ignore and leave the space until I am cool 😎
Like 24 hours?
Hehehehe I can do that, I might even be talking to you and still be pissed aswear 🤫
Well, everyone deals with anger differently but I am happy, mine doesn't last long
Yes oo, it's good that it doesn't oo, keep it up.
Hehehehh you are boss lady now, mine too doesn't last long but it takes time hehehehe 🤣🤣🤣
Hm, abeg oo, I don run oo 🏃♀️🏃♀️
Heheheh run oh please 🥺
That is too much naw
Hahaha
Okay, let fox vex for you first... experience is the best teacher 😂
No oo, I won't let that happen oo 😂😂
No wahala, since it's working it's fine.
Heheh yeah it's working for me but not in all cases like your own heheh
Hahaha, I'm I supposed to be happy or sad?
Or else, you'd break heads, right? 😒🚶♀
Hehehe you don dey smoke comrade heheheh 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Ahn, no nah. I was trying to elaborate and understand what you are trying to imply.
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Unwanted outcome sounds good....the other day I had issues with you fox, you didn't walk out oo
You was busy giving it to me back to back but shaa...butbwe later settled Las las
We no settle oh, I just had to let go
Really 😂
So you dey carry grudges for head?
E go heavy you nah 😂
I no dey carry grudges for head but I have it in my heart hehehe 🤣🤣
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
My belly oooo 😂😂😂
Head and heart, which one better ?
Lolz
Same same
You're right, when we are angry it's wise to talk less and listen more 👌.
Sure sis
Yeah 🥰
This your talk less and listen more has sinked inside my brain 🧠
Thanks 👍😊
It's from the Bible sha, I just said it again. But I'm happy you have kept it to use.
Yea...thanks so much 👍🤗🤝
I'm honored Ma'am 🙏
Mummy G.0🙌
Lolz, thank you so much daddy OG lolz
See me blushing excessively....😁☺️
Hahaha, that's funny, why are you blushing?
True, or else the words that get spitted out might be one that was not planned. and can be used against such a person when the whole thing dies down.
You're absolutely right dear.
Thanks, mama! 🙇♂️
You're welcome dear.
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Smiles
My dear, spoken words cannot be retrieved. A lot of horrible words do come out from many people while angry, so the best is to press the mute button 🔘 if possible 😂
Exactly o my sister, a word is enough for the wise.
Yes, it's best to press mute. But how many people have the ability to do that? There are some people who possess a hot temper..
Raw Truth
Undiluted 👍🤣🤣
Oh, you are making me to feel myself small.😎
I agree with your point......but that plug in your earpiece...the thing no clear 🤣🤣🤣I feel that music comes later when that person is not present because sometimes they might be older than you eg your parents.....
True too O, they will now be feeling as if you are insulting them, if you do long hair, use am cover your ear while using a wireless earpiece, the goal is to avoid getting angry at hurtful words spoken to you, if you no come hear wetin dey talk, how u wan come dey vex for wetin you no hear? Just a suggestion though
🤣🤣🤣🤣long hair
Omo he no easy
🤣🤣🤣abi o
Until them pull that long hair like a rope that was used to tie a cow..🤣
Hahaha😄😄😄 funny u
Isn't it a concern? You know some people may get angry almost to a point of madness. They go just grab than long hair..😂
Haha😂😂🤣🤣 the anger has reached 100% then
Honestly.....🤣
Yes the best thing to do is to walk, inorder to clam the situation, because if you react immediately,you might regret your action later
You got the point🙋♀️
Haha I like how you said "plugging your earpiece or airpod"... But wait oo what if it's an elderly person? Like a family member... If na my papa, the way he go take disown me eeh 🤣...
But yeah I understand what you mean and we both have that in common... I also like to walk away when I'm angry. E hard sha but I make sure to calm myself and think before acting out.
Happy weekend! ❤️🤗
Yea, walking away should always be the fist thought to avoid an outburst, or you can try @mrenglish method, go look for water drink, it probably will work for you too.
Lovely weekend to you too.
But what if that water did the opposite? - like a water break. Instead of calming your nerves, it gives you more energy to continue the war..🤔
Nice one. Keep spreading the water therapy.
Great weekend too!
Hahaha😄😄 will give it more endorsements after trying it out.
🤣🤣🤣. Hope you had a great weekend.
I sure did, today is my baby's 1st birthday by the way.
Wow. That's a huge celebration.
Many happy returns baby.
Live long,
Be prosperous,
And be in good health.
Cheers.
Hope you had a great weekend too?
Yeah. I did.
You know what? Just go and create a home at under-bridge sharpaley.🤣
Imagine you used the earpiece when they were almost rounding up their talk, my dear you just elongated it by maybe 3 hours..🤣
I'm telling you! 🤣 Ahhh 🙆.. I no fit try am oo
The only solution is just to let them talk all they wan talk. and carry a remorseful face. Then sigh once in a while. But when you can see a sign of them being tired of talking but say you want to ease yourself and off you go to your room.. You alone!
You can thank me later...!
Honestly, you got the point. Most times, if we aint careful about what we say during anger moments, we tend to mis-talk! And even if we were right, our mis-talk can be used against us and then we are mis-judged!
Exactly bro
Being angry is not bad at all but the way around it can make it look bad or terrible.
You be like, say your mind and the worst can happen noni...hahahaha
Na so O, just say your mind and end the madness once.