Dealing with anger for me..
I either excuse myself or just play some good music.. especially worshipful ones that plugs my spirit to the most high...
Its possible I don't remember this Sha, but.. I m usually more careful and I try think am well before I talk. If I don't need to respond, I just keep mute.
If the anger lasts till evening.. I ll sleep early, make the sun no go down and I still dey vex, to avoid problems.
One part of the scripture that has helped me is
James 1:20
It says the wrath of man worketh not the righteousness of God.
Omo, the day the Holy spirit wispered this to me, I just mellowed my anger and started laughing. I m glad I know more now. So I try as fast as possible to jump out .. but e dey hard sometime.
Lastly.. I walk off and then go back to hear the person out with the aim of settling it. I go back having prayed and I just trust that God will have that matter in control..and we all learn from our mistakes.
Matter wey Una never seat down talk how God wan take control am? I think prayer works when you both express yourself.
Well.. I pray Anyways.To God. He has the key to the heart of men.
Even before you sit to talk, I advice you pray to God if you believe in him.
I sure believe in God and I pray often.....I think maybe what we should pray about is to have a calm heart and a right words to say....God use us to accomplish things
Omo everybody sabi vex we just Dey calm down ni all thanks to God like you said. But some people sabi para sha😂😂