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RE: Hive-Naija Weekend Engagement #41 - "Dealing With Anger"

in Speak Peace2 years ago

Anger is simply the devil's anointing (permit me to say). You oy get to know the weight of what your anger had done when you are calmed after a moment of exhibiting anger.

The best way I handle anger is to take water when I notice I am beginning to get infuriated. At other times, I just take a deep breath. And when these does not work, walking away from the scene is the final resort.
I have been tutored that when I allow anger to rage from me, I could become more of a fool.

Hi guys. Thank you, @quduus1 for this wonderful topic suggestion.
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Hmm, these steps might seem foolish to people but they just work like magic.

Seriously. The idea came out from my experience, trying to control my temperament.

Wow
I see... maybe I will try this too
Who knows 🤦

You should not get angry but in case you do, drink water. 😪

Hahaha
This your recommendation is just cracking my ribs 😂

🤣😂🤣😂 anyways, it's funny but works.

Please it shouldn't oo, it works well.

Wow
Have you done that before?
It sounds interesting

That is true 💯.

If person dey continually angry nko, them drink water repeatedly...until osmosis occurs..🤣🤣

Anyone who is not ready to work on his or her temperament shouldn't just bother trying the therapy.

Exactly... Although it could be quite a difficult thing, so it takes a great deal of determination to actually first accept he/she has anger issues. Then, going all in to effectively manage it.

Try what???
Putting water in your mouth are you sure you will not drink it and reply?🤣🤣

😂😂😂😂😂
Honestly, this seems weird 😂👍

Yes it is weird but it works really well, hehe.

He didn't a say you should put water in your mouth oo 😂😂, he said you should drink water, lolz.

Na almost the same thing na sisturrr
Las law water touch mouth 🤣🤣🤣🤣

Yes naw but don't hold it in your mouth 😂😂

Exactly, my point. A person go just swallow water, gets energized, and probably continues again.

Yes, you should 😊❤️

It's really nice, I have tried it before and it worked really well.

That's a good testimonial for the water therapy then. It works.

Yes it is, I have others who have tried it too and they agreed it works too.

Nice one.
Hope you had a great week

Yes I did sir 🥰 and you?

I must confess, anybody that who has mastered how to tame his or her anger does not know what God has done for them.

Anger is a evil tool. When its rage sets in, we the individual losses control of bus or her actions.

Honestly, excess anger is a beast of no nation. If it's not controlled, then it takes control by itself.

Water ke... What if water no dey.

The GitHub task please try to do it bro

Hehehehe the guy shock me aswear, why I go dey drink water when I dey vex ahahahaah 🤣🤣 to

Yes oo, it helps relax the nerves, you should try it sometimes 🥰😊.

Hehehehe 🤣🤣🤣 lol 🤣🤣 water can bo calm my own ohhh Lolz 😂🤣🤣 fire fire

It will, never say never, go and try it first 😉.

Hehehe abi mo tin try e ni heheheh 🤣🤣🤣 see you

No problem, when you try, you will give us updates naw.

It is called water therapy. It calms the nerve.

Hehehehe I guess I will try it because you look like doctor and I dey respect doctor aswear 🤫🤫🤫

Ahaha. Doctor kwa. Nah wetin I don try before and e work.

Hehehehe 🤣🤣🤣🤣 you con dey do like doctor, you don work as nurse before 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

I no be nurse ooo. Nah just wetin I try before.

Uhm, deep...! Maybe I'd try it someday.

Our nerves are calmed when we take water.

It is true anyway..

You will most likely pour the water away na..

Abi na truly what if there is no water around nko???? Hehehehe 🤣🤣🤣

Water go dey, if e nor dey na to walk away naw 🤕.

Hehehe peeele see motivational speaker hehehe 🤣🤣 walk away ko walk away ni. My brother break bottle 😂🤣🤣

I will not be surprised to hear that my own fox break bottle 😂😉, but please before you do so, remember that we care for you and want you alive for us 😂😂🤫

Hehehe 🤣🤣 see this one, you will be reading words backwards hehehe 🤣🤣🤣

Abeg oo
For the one we 💕... anything, backward or forward reading 😏

Hahaha, this child you too get bad mouth o 🤣🤣

Awwn, see your mom is caring for you @quduus1 😂😂

He doesn't understand sef...lolz

Heheh 🤣🤣 lolz, I love her die heheh 🤣🤣

If you truly care for him, make sure only plastic bottles are around him always.😎

Hahaha
I care for him oo and he knows that
Lolz

Hahaha, which bottle be that? You sef you nor break bottle na come person when dey drink water, please be calming down oo 😂😂

Heheheh I comment my reserve

Heheh 🤣🤣🤣

Then find any source of water. At least even in a desert, oases exist..

Water gat dey oo 😂.

I have tried it but couldn't find where to sign up.

Done

Signed up and like the first emoji

Why did I read this thing first...
as if instead of the water @mrenglish said, the (or a) GitHub task is the solution..?🤔

Ahahaha, @temibot, I have done the GitHub task.

Yeah, I know right..🤣

Hehehehe you are indeed a strange type, you take water lolz what is the function of the water lool 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

It helps your nerves to be relaxed and that in turn will help you think better.

Hehehehe cold water or hot water 💦 eheheh 🤣🤣🤣🤣 who water help hehehe 🤣🤣🤣

Cold one naw 🤣🤣🤣

Heheheh you sure I think say na hot water 💧

You no gimme hot or cold coke or Pepsi make I dey okay you dey gimme water hehehe 🤣🤣I go vex twice

Lolz, water works better dear. I would have told you to try it but I don't want you to become angry 😂😂.

Heheh 🤣🤣🤣🤣 I don't want water oh

Better want it oo 😂

Arrrgh.. you truly valid bro! It is true na, why normal water when we have chilled MALT?

God bless you my Fellow ffo hehe 😊😊😊😊

That's the spirit, bro..

Correct
My scientist has spoken 👍🤗

Yes oo, it's now I know I learned something in school 😂😂

😂😂😂😂
Your teachers deserves some accolades 👍

Yes oo, it's me that was not a good student, they tried their best for me.

At that point when you are angry, your nerves are burnt up and ready to explode in rage. With water, it calms like veggies.

Hehehehe bad guy, you too Sabi good thing heheh 🤣🤣🤣 see you dey sweet talk water like say he be SHARWAMA 😥 hehehehehe

Water be like Shawarma.

But come to think of it o, you know humans are different. What water does to sodium is kinda different from Lithium o..

Individual differences abound, no doubt. But water does a lot of good to every human.

Yes, I am glad you got the point I was making. But water it is...😁

To help refuel anger...🚶‍♀

But really, it depends on the type of water though..

Yeah mine is just to leave the surrounding and go out and blow off some steam either by playing games or football

how does that help?

Okay yeah it helps me because when I see football everything that is wrong with gets better automatically, it is just like my chil pill as guys na ...

So when I get to the field I play ball until I am relieved and I am enjoying the game

Hmm, that's understandable sha, but that doesn't mean you should walk away from me all the time, you can just tell me you know 😂😂.

Ohhhh I don't know how to do that,if I talk to you it will end instantly but I will talk with red eye which I don't like showing aswear 🤫

Hmm, okay oo, this only means that we are never going to be together 😂😂

Okay I promise to change aswear 🤫

For you I will change aswear 🤫

i can never understand guys and football, something that will be giving you body pain

Hehehehe ah football is life my dear 😘😘 there is Joy in ball oh, hehehehe 😂😂

Especially the leg pains afterwards , enjoy ya self

Ahahahah na before na, now we are footballer with all sorts of injury hehehehe 🤣🤣🤣

🤣🤣

Aswear football is life

Pls volumeeee!
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You don't want to know the joy unspeakable that exists in there..!

Me sef I don't know oo

you suppose😎 to know o

I nor come know so oo.

That means you no join sabi geng😁😄

E be like so oo 😞

Hmm, so that's how you will be walking away from me anyhow abi? 🥺.

Hehehehe if you make me angry I will walk away until I am Calm and then I will be okay

Nice, it's a good thing 🥰.

Hehehehe yeah oh

Blow off some steam 🙄🙄
Like a locomotive train? 😂🤣

Heheehhhe 😋 yeyehh no dey yne cultist oh you go collect wotowoto hehehh

Which one be wotowoto? Abi Nah you go collect......🙄

I tire oo..
or nuclear reactor.🤣

Abi him wan smoke Igboo ?

Maybe, maybe not....
Or loud..??

Very well, that is another thing.
Mine is just food. Better food!! 😁

Anger is simply the devil's anointing (permit me to say).
No, I can not permit you, sir...It is okay not to get angry. Even Jesus got angry when people turned the temple into a marketplace..

It is recorded that we can get angry but shouldn't sin in our anger.

walking away from the scene is the final resort.
I have been tutored that when I allow anger to rage from me, I could become more of a fool

But I agree with you here sha...hehehe

Come to think of it though, I have never tried drinking water when I am angry, I am wondering how it helps LOLOL🤣

Oh, I get it, NO wonder one musician sang this song, " I'M HOTTER THAN FIRE, GIVE ME SOME WATER......" Somebori should complete it. LOL

Hehehe you sef Sabi am, like seriously 💥💥💥 I will never drink water when I am angry it's kinda crazy 😂😂

😂

Abi na I no follow you laff I dey talk serious 🤣🤣🤣

When you try I'm na you go know say you dey stress yourself since 😂😂.

Heheehhhe 😋😋 okay na, I will try it but not now hehehe 🤣🤣

Alright dear, when the time comes for you to try it you will know 🥰.

Exactly, that was how Naaman delayed getting healed because the process was to easy for him to get better, lolz.

Hehehe 🤣🤣🤣 Pele mummy GO🤫🤣🤣🤣...BUT I won't drink oh only if you gimme with 😘

See you, that means you will have to go and play ball and remove steam oo 😤😤

Hehehe lolz okay baby

Correct babe
Some simple things work like magic only if we believe 👌✅

Yes oo, they do 😊

you too complete it yourself, see person wey dey talk, she vex pass beans. hahahahhaha

Hehehehe 🤣🤣🤣🤣 abi na I fear her anger aswear 🤫

Hmm, so you don see her dey vex before?

Heheh 🤣🤣 see you..you no see how nobody could come to her to confess hehehe 🤣🤣🤣

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂😂😂
Laff wan kee me here...

I disagree with yo joor.. Me I only talk at home when it is necessary but, I no kon understand the reason why nobody gree confess even as I dey shout dey para... God dey sha😂😂

Hehehehe 🤣🤣🤣 lol dey fear you aswear 📸📸📸 I see am sef hope fire no come out from your head hehehehe 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Your sisters know you better for that aspect nai make them nor wan confess make them nor collect 😂😂

Abi oo, lolz, you are truly a good observer 👍.

Hehehehe 🤣🤣🤣 abi na I learnt from the best eheheh 🤣🤣🤣

from her writing na, you sef go feel her anger

Who no go vex for that kain thing.😒
I vex well well o

I still dey vex sef.🚶‍♀


🤣🤣🤣 oya no vex I, I dey beg on be half of @pearlsuddy and @glorydee. Abeg. @hopestylist and @quduus1 make una still beg her for us. 🤣😀

Please calm down dear.

Eyah Mrs vexer heheheh 🤣🤣

Hahaha, as in ehn. I was not looking at it from that aspect though, I wanted to taught @quduus1 🥵.

So now as you look am ,wet in you see?😁

Heheheh you are high hope with you calling my name here 🤣🤨

I don't know for @quduus1 o

Hehehehe lolz you dey yne cultist hehehehe 🤣🤣

you need to fear her o, she be vex part one

Hehehehe 🤣🤣🤣 you see hope she dey fear 🔥🔥🔥

Heheheheheh 🙂 abeg o

Hehehehe hope she you dey hear hehehehe 🤣🤣


You never see anything na hin you yarn say you dey fear my anger...Thank you @hopestylist

I comment my reserve..🚶‍♀🚶‍♀🚶‍♀

Hehehh 🤣🤣🤣🤣 lolz 😂🤣🤣 we don start my dear, I go first you come next week sef hehehe 🤣🤣🤣🤣...
I dey like challenge Weller 🤣😂🤣

Make we see as e go be na😃

Oya na noo Lele we go jam for corner next week

Yes oo, I can't wait to see who wins this challenge, hehe.

Oya na no probs

Normally, you can be the first next week too 😉

Heheheh you are correct

Me self I commented my reservoir 😂😂🤣🤣😂

😅

Abi na hehehehe 🤣🤣🤣

Hehehe 🤣🤣🤣🤣😂🤣😂🤣

What? Your reservoir? 😂😂

Yeah hehe I no get anything hehehehe 🤣🤣

You're welcome dear, please sorry for Foxy, he just has bad mouth 😂.

Ah!!! Beans dey vex? I never knew 😂😂

if you put beans for fire, how many hours e dey take before e don? so now you know say beans sef dey vexed😁😁,
clap for me na

😆

Oya applaud me o😁

clap clap clap clap clap clap

We have applauded you oo, you really tried 👏👏.

As in ehn, this girl will nor kill us with explanation 🤣🤣

Treasure 😂😂, I sight this your beans vs anger illustration 👍

Welcome mama, you sabi road o

Nor be small, she Sabi the road gon, lolz.

Hahaha 😂
D road straight Wella 👍

As ehn, na top notch oo 🤣

Nothing wey I no go hear from this engagement
It's getting interesting shaa 😂😂
Learning continues

Hahaha 👏👏you are famtambulous with that explanation, lolz.

😆😆😆 no be small famtambulous

Who knows? Instead of taking water to chill anger, Maybe immediately putting beans on fire is a better alternative. 🤔

LOLzzzz...Ehn shey beans dey vex?
Me I never see beans wey dey vex before o?

Abi is it just me? Hahahaha😂

Let me explain again, you dey speak English,
As beans dey stay long for fit, e mean say e dey vex😁

😆😆😆😆😂

Yes the Bible said that and it also says we should be slow to anger too 😂😂.

Drinking water helps in a very mysterious way, you should try it. Me I don't know that song sha, @quduus1 do you know the song?

Heheh 🤣🤣🤣 weytin I no sabi for this world heheh 🤣🤣🤣🤣,na song wey popular na ..
Old school girl

@hopestylist ah! you don't know the song...Eeyahh...lol

Heheh 🤣🤣🤣 weytin I no sabi for this world heheh 🤣🤣🤣🤣,na song wey popular na ..

Mr Sabi man @quduus1 Your head dey there...I hail you.😄

Wagbayi Omo iya mi hehehehe 🤣🤣🤣 lolz do yo understand that heheh, that is Yoruba oh, heehhe you are now lost heheh

Lost ke, mo wa pe lu e.
We don't get lost in the corner LOL

Heheh 🤣🤣🤣🤣 oya na opp commot body no Join body if you join body you collect hehehe 🤣🤣🤣🤣

Hahaha, e shock am oo 🤣🤣

See you, seems like you jam rock means oo 😂😂

Heheh 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Me I'm not learning it oo, better come and teach us oo, after all you started it, lolz.

Hahaha, who he this one? Better go learn how to dey drink water in case you dey vex 😏.

Water 💦 ko water ni heheh 🤣🤣🤣

Whatever, just do what you want, you already know that is what matter to me 😏

Now, it is that mysterious that I am now scared of. You can never be too sure in this Nigeria o

Haha, drinking water when angry even the Nigeria system is weak in that one, lolz.

Exactly...!

Yes naw, hehe.

That your hotter than fire lyrics reminds me of that song, that year.
Anger is a part of man but there is a level one would get and anger would be far away from him or her.

Yeah...you are not wrong, I agree.
But that doesn't mean that it will cease to exist in that person's life.

No no, it doesn't mean. With maturity, one tends to overcome what makes him or her gets angry.
Your level of anger doesn't make you destroy things. Then, one can say it is an emotion that is manageable.

This is true...WEll you are not Wrong.

Kai... I love this! This is very true!

Yeah. We should avoid this "Do me I do you" syndrome.

You don't know that the new way of life now is pure Vawulence😎

But you know there are some fire that gets rekindled by water..!🤔

No be lie

Like pouring water into Lithium...is explosive o.
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Hmmm....I can imagine

Very well then..🚶‍♀️

I have been tutored that when I allow anger to rage from me, I could become more of a fool
even everyone was tutored my brother, but, when wahala find you come, you give am as you like

He who fights and runs away, lube to fight another day. It is only anger and ride that keeps you in a fight. An end that you do not know awaits.

I swear I no hear English, pls come again😀

Ahahah.
Pesin wet see fight and run an him get sense pass.

Okay na, I get you

🤣🤣😂🤣 I hear you.

What if there is no other day? And better still we won't see correct fil to watch na.

Ahahah. Get serious joor. Fighting makes one a fool as much as the other person.

Well, you are correct in the normal world we are.

You drink water when you're upset and it helps?😳 That's a first!
Maybe I should try it too😂

Hehehe naso me sef see am oh hehehehe 😂😂😂😂

Tor maybe it actually works o😂.

Seeiously, it is a therapy I learned some years ago. Water calms the nerve.

I’ll definitely try this and bring back my review😁

You should. But the best try is to avoid anger, not the therapy.

You see that too..? I was weak when I first saw it!

Water? Its strange because I no know wetin go make me remember water when angry, I'm learning new things bayi o

If you don ready to control your anger and you no wan scatter things, just remember water, that's all.
Everything go just coooooleee.

Ok, although I try not to let anything anger me now, I'll put this your method in mind.

Very well.
There was a time I tried this too and it worked. Water is such a powerful therapy for anger or temperament in general.

New knowledge found then

We learn every day.

Devil's anointing 😂😂😂
I have heard people talk about taking water while angry but I think they do so to avoid voicing out ugly words.

Yeah. Sometimes, after a show if anger, you'd see there was no need to be angry in the first place.
And water makes you swallow it suppress rage which is the first point to anger.

Hmmmm....put water in your mouth... anyway it works for you.
I'm just imaging putting water in my mouth when I'm angry I might just swallow it and reply 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 expecially when the words need my reply.

It's not to put water in the mouth of but to drink it.

You take water break in a fight, rest for some seconds and continue the anger fight...😅

,🤣🤣🤣 it's the water therapy

Water therapy indeed..!!🤣

Omo your way of calming anger is funny😂😂. Like you drink water😂😂.

Yeah. That's my therapy.

Wow,that’s beautiful to hear😁🥺

You should try out too.

Abi oo, na to just drink water drop cup 😅... Taking deep breaths work sometimes but not everyone remembers to do that. Some kinds of rage are so infuriating that we blow up like a bomb unknowingly and end up taking regrettable actions... May we not experience that kind anger sha.

I also think walking away is the best option and it works for me too.

Happy weekend! ❤️🤗

Certainly. Walking away or taking a deep breath are therapies angry people could try out not to explode.

I like your method. But like I replied to @glorydee earlier...

But what if that water did the opposite? - like a water break. Instead of calming your nerves, it gives you more energy to continue the war..🤔

As in clear your throat to answer the person more🤣🤣

Exactly, my point really.
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Then you are not ready to tame the temperament. If one must apply the water therapy, he should be ready to follow the effect.

Very well then. Apart from anger issues here, I have heard about the tremendous things water does when utilized in therapy. I believe it won't be an exception here.