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Hmm, Anger, the truth every human is meant to feel anger, whether expected or not, so how do we manage it, for me, the first thing I try to do is walk out of the scene,if this doesn't work, try as much as possible to say less while angry because some foolish words are usually made out of anger,if the person you are angry with keeps saying hurtful words to provoke you, try plugging your earpiece or airpod to avoid hearing what they are saying to further provoke you.
Although sometimes, i feel the rage burst out everything in my mind, and then I receive my PEACE, instead of carrying the anger around or having the person in mind.
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We are waiting for you 🥵.
Hehehehe 🤣🤣🤣 some people are just so annoying and strong headed but I think I like your method it's kinda cooly strange 🤣😂🤣😂🤣
Haha as long as it works for me, after trying all methods, when you tried to avoid the angerbanf it still keeps coming, you have no choice than to face it squarely, just have it at the back of your mind that you are facing it to get it resolved .
Hehehe you na guru oh, please comman teach me oh hehehehe
I no be guru o, it just depends in the circumstance involved
Hehehe 🤣🤣🤣 you are strange hehehehe 🤣🤣🤣 I hail you oh, I respect you
Na life experiences cause am jare
That's true sha but you have good ideas ❤️.
Thank you☺
Is it not teach that she is already teaching you so 🙄.
Hehehe 🤣🤣🤣 you this girl is here AGAIN 😂🤣😂🤣
Hello sweetheart, did you miss me? 😁🤧
Will he even listen or apply this method?
😂😂, I am full now and ready for fox 🦊😉
That's good to know, I'm already seeing you every where, hehehe.
Wait so that quduus is FOX..Foxy?
Wow!!
Nice, it's a good advise to have the mind of resolving the issue before facing it squarely.
Heheh yeah that is indeed true I stand with my beloved hope
Thank you for standing with me, can I stroll now? 😂🥵
Hehehehe 🤣🤣🤣 lolz you are in need of deliverance 🤣🤣🤣
Yes people like you sometimes sha 🤧🤧.
Heheh 🤣🤣🤣 hope you don start again but this week we will share love my love 😘
Who love help
Mtchewww 😏
Hehehehehe 😂😂😂 you go talk am again my Love
Lolz, why she go talk am again?
Hahaha 😂😂
Awwn, no wahala, I do not mind sharing at all 😁😤
Hehehe 🤣🤣🤣 see you old woman
You are calling me old woman and you don't use to greet me 🙄
Better apply it🤫😏😏😉
I work out most times to prevent unwanted outcomes
Yea, if it works for you, great then
Hehehe I surely will because seeing that person face will make the anger more extreme
Exactly
Heheh 🤣🤣🤣 that is why I just go far away as possible because I can break the person head aswear 🤫🤫🤫
I think you should break one someday. At least people go dey fear you small. Or what do you think?
Abi oo.
Ah!!! I don't know why I feel like taking this personally 😂😂.
Heheh like you are high abi🤣😂
I'm not, I'm very low 🥵
I think I am starting to be scared of you o. You're feel like taking or personal ke?😒
Hahaha, don't worry you will not understand, it's between me and Foxy 😅😅
But what if it doesn't?
Ohhhh it does actually very very
Hmm, okay that's good then.
Hmmmm I hear you ma, 🤞
No wonder you always like walking out on me, no problem I have learned now 🥰👍.
Heheh 🤣🤣 yeah when I am angry I just ignore and leave the space until I am cool 😎
Like 24 hours?
Hehehehe I can do that, I might even be talking to you and still be pissed aswear 🤫
Well, everyone deals with anger differently but I am happy, mine doesn't last long
Hm, abeg oo, I don run oo 🏃♀️🏃♀️
That is too much naw
Hahaha
Okay, let fox vex for you first... experience is the best teacher 😂
No wahala, since it's working it's fine.
Heheh yeah it's working for me but not in all cases like your own heheh
Hahaha, I'm I supposed to be happy or sad?
Or else, you'd break heads, right? 😒🚶♀
Hehehe you don dey smoke comrade heheheh 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Ahn, no nah. I was trying to elaborate and understand what you are trying to imply.
😂😂😂
Unwanted outcome sounds good....the other day I had issues with you fox, you didn't walk out oo
You was busy giving it to me back to back but shaa...butbwe later settled Las las
We no settle oh, I just had to let go
Really 😂
So you dey carry grudges for head?
E go heavy you nah 😂
I no dey carry grudges for head but I have it in my heart hehehe 🤣🤣
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
My belly oooo 😂😂😂
Head and heart, which one better ?
Lolz
You're right, when we are angry it's wise to talk less and listen more 👌.
Sure sis
Yeah 🥰
This your talk less and listen more has sinked inside my brain 🧠
Thanks 👍😊
It's from the Bible sha, I just said it again. But I'm happy you have kept it to use.
Yea...thanks so much 👍🤗🤝
I'm honored Ma'am 🙏
Mummy G.0🙌
Lolz, thank you so much daddy OG lolz
See me blushing excessively....😁☺️
True, or else the words that get spitted out might be one that was not planned. and can be used against such a person when the whole thing dies down.
You're absolutely right dear.
Thanks, mama! 🙇♂️
You're welcome dear.
😘😘😘😘
😘😘😘
My dear, spoken words cannot be retrieved. A lot of horrible words do come out from many people while angry, so the best is to press the mute button 🔘 if possible 😂
Exactly o my sister, a word is enough for the wise.
Yes, it's best to press mute. But how many people have the ability to do that? There are some people who possess a hot temper..
Raw Truth
Undiluted 👍🤣🤣
Oh, you are making me to feel myself small.😎
I agree with your point......but that plug in your earpiece...the thing no clear 🤣🤣🤣I feel that music comes later when that person is not present because sometimes they might be older than you eg your parents.....
True too O, they will now be feeling as if you are insulting them, if you do long hair, use am cover your ear while using a wireless earpiece, the goal is to avoid getting angry at hurtful words spoken to you, if you no come hear wetin dey talk, how u wan come dey vex for wetin you no hear? Just a suggestion though
🤣🤣🤣🤣long hair
Omo he no easy
🤣🤣🤣abi o
Until them pull that long hair like a rope that was used to tie a cow..🤣
Hahaha😄😄😄 funny u
Isn't it a concern? You know some people may get angry almost to a point of madness. They go just grab than long hair..😂
Haha😂😂🤣🤣 the anger has reached 100% then
Yes the best thing to do is to walk, inorder to clam the situation, because if you react immediately,you might regret your action later
You got the point🙋♀️
Haha I like how you said "plugging your earpiece or airpod"... But wait oo what if it's an elderly person? Like a family member... If na my papa, the way he go take disown me eeh 🤣...
But yeah I understand what you mean and we both have that in common... I also like to walk away when I'm angry. E hard sha but I make sure to calm myself and think before acting out.
Happy weekend! ❤️🤗
Yea, walking away should always be the fist thought to avoid an outburst, or you can try @mrenglish method, go look for water drink, it probably will work for you too.
Lovely weekend to you too.
But what if that water did the opposite? - like a water break. Instead of calming your nerves, it gives you more energy to continue the war..🤔
Nice one. Keep spreading the water therapy.
Great weekend too!
Hahaha😄😄 will give it more endorsements after trying it out.
🤣🤣🤣. Hope you had a great weekend.
I sure did, today is my baby's 1st birthday by the way.
Hope you had a great weekend too?
You know what? Just go and create a home at under-bridge sharpaley.🤣
Imagine you used the earpiece when they were almost rounding up their talk, my dear you just elongated it by maybe 3 hours..🤣
I'm telling you! 🤣 Ahhh 🙆.. I no fit try am oo
The only solution is just to let them talk all they wan talk. and carry a remorseful face. Then sigh once in a while. But when you can see a sign of them being tired of talking but say you want to ease yourself and off you go to your room.. You alone!
You can thank me later...!
Honestly, you got the point. Most times, if we aint careful about what we say during anger moments, we tend to mis-talk! And even if we were right, our mis-talk can be used against us and then we are mis-judged!
Exactly bro
Being angry is not bad at all but the way around it can make it look bad or terrible.
You be like, say your mind and the worst can happen noni...hahahaha
Na so O, just say your mind and end the madness once.
Anger is simply the devil's anointing (permit me to say). You oy get to know the weight of what your anger had done when you are calmed after a moment of exhibiting anger.
The best way I handle anger is to take water when I notice I am beginning to get infuriated. At other times, I just take a deep breath. And when these does not work, walking away from the scene is the final resort.
Hi guys. Thank you, @quduus1 for this wonderful topic suggestion.I have been tutored that when I allow anger to rage from me, I could become more of a fool.
Hmm, these steps might seem foolish to people but they just work like magic.
Seriously. The idea came out from my experience, trying to control my temperament.
Wow
I see... maybe I will try this too
Who knows 🤦
You should not get angry but in case you do, drink water. 😪
Hahaha
This your recommendation is just cracking my ribs 😂
🤣😂🤣😂 anyways, it's funny but works.
Please it shouldn't oo, it works well.
That is true 💯.
100%
If person dey continually angry nko, them drink water repeatedly...until osmosis occurs..🤣🤣
Anyone who is not ready to work on his or her temperament shouldn't just bother trying the therapy.
Try what???
Putting water in your mouth are you sure you will not drink it and reply?🤣🤣
😂😂😂😂😂
Honestly, this seems weird 😂👍
Yes it is weird but it works really well, hehe.
He didn't a say you should put water in your mouth oo 😂😂, he said you should drink water, lolz.
Na almost the same thing na sisturrr
Las law water touch mouth 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Exactly, my point. A person go just swallow water, gets energized, and probably continues again.
Yes, you should 😊❤️
It's really nice, I have tried it before and it worked really well.
That's a good testimonial for the water therapy then. It works.
Yes it is, I have others who have tried it too and they agreed it works too.
Nice one.
Hope you had a great week
I must confess, anybody that who has mastered how to tame his or her anger does not know what God has done for them.
Anger is a evil tool. When its rage sets in, we the individual losses control of bus or her actions.
Honestly, excess anger is a beast of no nation. If it's not controlled, then it takes control by itself.
Water ke... What if water no dey.
The GitHub task please try to do it bro
Hehehehe the guy shock me aswear, why I go dey drink water when I dey vex ahahahaah 🤣🤣 to
Yes oo, it helps relax the nerves, you should try it sometimes 🥰😊.
Hehehehe 🤣🤣🤣 lol 🤣🤣 water can bo calm my own ohhh Lolz 😂🤣🤣 fire fire
It will, never say never, go and try it first 😉.
Hehehe abi mo tin try e ni heheheh 🤣🤣🤣 see you
It is called water therapy. It calms the nerve.
Hehehehe I guess I will try it because you look like doctor and I dey respect doctor aswear 🤫🤫🤫
Ahaha. Doctor kwa. Nah wetin I don try before and e work.
Hehehehe 🤣🤣🤣🤣 you con dey do like doctor, you don work as nurse before 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Uhm, deep...! Maybe I'd try it someday.
Our nerves are calmed when we take water.
It is true anyway..
You will most likely pour the water away na..
Abi na truly what if there is no water around nko???? Hehehehe 🤣🤣🤣
Water go dey, if e nor dey na to walk away naw 🤕.
Hehehe peeele see motivational speaker hehehe 🤣🤣 walk away ko walk away ni. My brother break bottle 😂🤣🤣
I will not be surprised to hear that my own fox break bottle 😂😉, but please before you do so, remember that we care for you and want you alive for us 😂😂🤫
Hehehe 🤣🤣 see this one, you will be reading words backwards hehehe 🤣🤣🤣
Awwn, see your mom is caring for you @quduus1 😂😂
If you truly care for him, make sure only plastic bottles are around him always.😎
Hahaha, which bottle be that? You sef you nor break bottle na come person when dey drink water, please be calming down oo 😂😂
Heheheh I comment my reserve
Heheh 🤣🤣🤣
Then find any source of water. At least even in a desert, oases exist..
Water gat dey oo 😂.
I have tried it but couldn't find where to sign up.
Done
Signed up and like the first emoji
Why did I read this thing first...
as if instead of the water @mrenglish said, the (or a) GitHub task is the solution..?🤔
Ahahaha, @temibot, I have done the GitHub task.
Yeah, I know right..🤣
Hehehehe you are indeed a strange type, you take water lolz what is the function of the water lool 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
It helps your nerves to be relaxed and that in turn will help you think better.
Hehehehe cold water or hot water 💦 eheheh 🤣🤣🤣🤣 who water help hehehe 🤣🤣🤣
Cold one naw 🤣🤣🤣
Heheheh you sure I think say na hot water 💧
No na 😅
You no gimme hot or cold coke or Pepsi make I dey okay you dey gimme water hehehe 🤣🤣I go vex twice
Lolz, water works better dear. I would have told you to try it but I don't want you to become angry 😂😂.
Heheh 🤣🤣🤣🤣 I don't want water oh
Better want it oo 😂
Arrrgh.. you truly valid bro! It is true na, why normal water when we have chilled MALT?
God bless you my Fellow ffo hehe 😊😊😊😊
That's the spirit, bro..
Correct
My scientist has spoken 👍🤗
Yes oo, it's now I know I learned something in school 😂😂
😂😂😂😂
Your teachers deserves some accolades 👍
Yes oo, it's me that was not a good student, they tried their best for me.
At that point when you are angry, your nerves are burnt up and ready to explode in rage. With water, it calms like veggies.
Hehehehe bad guy, you too Sabi good thing heheh 🤣🤣🤣 see you dey sweet talk water like say he be SHARWAMA 😥 hehehehehe
Water be like Shawarma.
But come to think of it o, you know humans are different. What water does to sodium is kinda different from Lithium o..
Individual differences abound, no doubt. But water does a lot of good to every human.
Yes, I am glad you got the point I was making. But water it is...😁
To help refuel anger...🚶♀
But really, it depends on the type of water though..
Yeah mine is just to leave the surrounding and go out and blow off some steam either by playing games or football
how does that help?
Okay yeah it helps me because when I see football everything that is wrong with gets better automatically, it is just like my chil pill as guys na ...
So when I get to the field I play ball until I am relieved and I am enjoying the game
Hmm, that's understandable sha, but that doesn't mean you should walk away from me all the time, you can just tell me you know 😂😂.
Ohhhh I don't know how to do that,if I talk to you it will end instantly but I will talk with red eye which I don't like showing aswear 🤫
Hmm, okay oo, this only means that we are never going to be together 😂😂
For you I will change aswear 🤫
i can never understand guys and football, something that will be giving you body pain
Hehehehe ah football is life my dear 😘😘 there is Joy in ball oh, hehehehe 😂😂
Especially the leg pains afterwards , enjoy ya self
🤣🤣
Pls volumeeee!
You don't want to know the joy unspeakable that exists in there..!
Me sef I don't know oo
you suppose😎 to know o
I nor come know so oo.
That means you no join sabi geng😁😄
Hmm, so that's how you will be walking away from me anyhow abi? 🥺.
Hehehehe if you make me angry I will walk away until I am Calm and then I will be okay
Nice, it's a good thing 🥰.
Hehehehe yeah oh
Yes Foxy ☺️
Smiles
Blow off some steam 🙄🙄
Like a locomotive train? 😂🤣
Heheehhhe 😋 yeyehh no dey yne cultist oh you go collect wotowoto hehehh
Which one be wotowoto? Abi Nah you go collect......🙄
I tire oo..
or nuclear reactor.🤣
Abi him wan smoke Igboo ?
Maybe, maybe not....
Or loud..??
Very well, that is another thing.
Mine is just food. Better food!! 😁
It is recorded that we can get angry but shouldn't sin in our anger.
But I agree with you here sha...hehehe
Come to think of it though, I have never tried drinking water when I am angry, I am wondering how it helps LOLOL🤣
Oh, I get it, NO wonder one musician sang this song, " I'M HOTTER THAN FIRE, GIVE ME SOME WATER......" Somebori should complete it. LOL
Hehehe you sef Sabi am, like seriously 💥💥💥 I will never drink water when I am angry it's kinda crazy 😂😂
😂
Abi na I no follow you laff I dey talk serious 🤣🤣🤣
When you try I'm na you go know say you dey stress yourself since 😂😂.
Heheehhhe 😋😋 okay na, I will try it but not now hehehe 🤣🤣
Exactly, that was how Naaman delayed getting healed because the process was to easy for him to get better, lolz.
Hehehe 🤣🤣🤣 Pele mummy GO🤫🤣🤣🤣...BUT I won't drink oh only if you gimme with 😘
See you, that means you will have to go and play ball and remove steam oo 😤😤
Hehehe lolz okay baby
Correct babe
Some simple things work like magic only if we believe 👌✅
Yes oo, they do 😊
you too complete it yourself, see person wey dey talk, she vex pass beans. hahahahhaha
Hehehehe 🤣🤣🤣🤣 abi na I fear her anger aswear 🤫
Hmm, so you don see her dey vex before?
Heheh 🤣🤣 see you..you no see how nobody could come to her to confess hehehe 🤣🤣🤣
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂😂😂
Laff wan kee me here...
I disagree with yo joor.. Me I only talk at home when it is necessary but, I no kon understand the reason why nobody gree confess even as I dey shout dey para... God dey sha😂😂
Abi oo, lolz, you are truly a good observer 👍.
from her writing na, you sef go feel her anger
Who no go vex for that kain thing.😒
I vex well well o
I still dey vex sef.🚶♀
Hahaha, as in ehn. I was not looking at it from that aspect though, I wanted to taught @quduus1 🥵.
I don't know for @quduus1 o
Hehehehe lolz you dey yne cultist hehehehe 🤣🤣
you need to fear her o, she be vex part one
Hehehehe 🤣🤣🤣 you see hope she dey fear 🔥🔥🔥
Heheheheheh 🙂 abeg o
You never see anything na hin you yarn say you dey fear my anger...Thank you @hopestylist
I comment my reserve..🚶♀🚶♀🚶♀
Hehehh 🤣🤣🤣🤣 lolz 😂🤣🤣 we don start my dear, I go first you come next week sef hehehe 🤣🤣🤣🤣...
I dey like challenge Weller 🤣😂🤣
Make we see as e go be na😃
Normally, you can be the first next week too 😉
Me self I commented my reservoir 😂😂🤣🤣😂
😅
What? Your reservoir? 😂😂
You're welcome dear, please sorry for Foxy, he just has bad mouth 😂.
Ah!!! Beans dey vex? I never knew 😂😂
if you put beans for fire, how many hours e dey take before e don? so now you know say beans sef dey vexed😁😁,
clap for me na
😆
Oya applaud me o😁
As in ehn, this girl will nor kill us with explanation 🤣🤣
Treasure 😂😂, I sight this your beans vs anger illustration 👍
Welcome mama, you sabi road o
As ehn, na top notch oo 🤣
Hahaha 👏👏you are famtambulous with that explanation, lolz.
😆😆😆 no be small famtambulous
Who knows? Instead of taking water to chill anger, Maybe immediately putting beans on fire is a better alternative. 🤔
😂
Lolz 🤣🤣
LOLzzzz...Ehn shey beans dey vex?
Me I never see beans wey dey vex before o?
Abi is it just me? Hahahaha😂
Let me explain again, you dey speak English,
As beans dey stay long for fit, e mean say e dey vex😁
😆😆😆😆😂
😀😀
Yes the Bible said that and it also says we should be slow to anger too 😂😂.
Drinking water helps in a very mysterious way, you should try it. Me I don't know that song sha, @quduus1 do you know the song?
Heheh 🤣🤣🤣 weytin I no sabi for this world heheh 🤣🤣🤣🤣,na song wey popular na ..
Old school girl
@hopestylist ah! you don't know the song...Eeyahh...lol
Mr Sabi man @quduus1 Your head dey there...I hail you.😄
Wagbayi Omo iya mi hehehehe 🤣🤣🤣 lolz do yo understand that heheh, that is Yoruba oh, heehhe you are now lost heheh
Lost ke, mo wa pe lu e.
We don't get lost in the corner LOL
See you, seems like you jam rock means oo 😂😂
Me I'm not learning it oo, better come and teach us oo, after all you started it, lolz.
😂😂
Hahaha, who he this one? Better go learn how to dey drink water in case you dey vex 😏.
Water 💦 ko water ni heheh 🤣🤣🤣
Whatever, just do what you want, you already know that is what matter to me 😏
Now, it is that mysterious that I am now scared of. You can never be too sure in this Nigeria o
Haha, drinking water when angry even the Nigeria system is weak in that one, lolz.
Exactly...!
Yes naw, hehe.
That your hotter than fire lyrics reminds me of that song, that year.
Anger is a part of man but there is a level one would get and anger would be far away from him or her.
Yeah...you are not wrong, I agree.
But that doesn't mean that it will cease to exist in that person's life.
No no, it doesn't mean. With maturity, one tends to overcome what makes him or her gets angry.
Your level of anger doesn't make you destroy things. Then, one can say it is an emotion that is manageable.
This is true...WEll you are not Wrong.
Kai... I love this! This is very true!
Yeah. We should avoid this "Do me I do you" syndrome.
You don't know that the new way of life now is pure Vawulence😎
But you know there are some fire that gets rekindled by water..!🤔
No be lie
Like pouring water into Lithium...is explosive o.
Hmmm....I can imagine
Very well then..🚶♀️
He who fights and runs away, lube to fight another day. It is only anger and ride that keeps you in a fight. An end that you do not know awaits.
I swear I no hear English, pls come again😀
Ahahah.
Pesin wet see fight and run an him get sense pass.
Okay na, I get you
🤣🤣😂🤣 I hear you.
What if there is no other day? And better still we won't see correct fil to watch na.
Ahahah. Get serious joor. Fighting makes one a fool as much as the other person.
Well, you are correct in the normal world we are.
You drink water when you're upset and it helps?😳 That's a first!
Maybe I should try it too😂
Hehehe naso me sef see am oh hehehehe 😂😂😂😂
Tor maybe it actually works o😂.
Seeiously, it is a therapy I learned some years ago. Water calms the nerve.
I’ll definitely try this and bring back my review😁
You should. But the best try is to avoid anger, not the therapy.
You see that too..? I was weak when I first saw it!
Water? Its strange because I no know wetin go make me remember water when angry, I'm learning new things bayi o
If you don ready to control your anger and you no wan scatter things, just remember water, that's all.
Everything go just coooooleee.
Ok, although I try not to let anything anger me now, I'll put this your method in mind.
Very well.
There was a time I tried this too and it worked. Water is such a powerful therapy for anger or temperament in general.
New knowledge found then
We learn every day.
Devil's anointing 😂😂😂
I have heard people talk about taking water while angry but I think they do so to avoid voicing out ugly words.
Yeah. Sometimes, after a show if anger, you'd see there was no need to be angry in the first place.
And water makes you swallow it suppress rage which is the first point to anger.
Hmmmm....put water in your mouth... anyway it works for you.
I'm just imaging putting water in my mouth when I'm angry I might just swallow it and reply 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 expecially when the words need my reply.
It's not to put water in the mouth of but to drink it.
You take water break in a fight, rest for some seconds and continue the anger fight...😅
,🤣🤣🤣 it's the water therapy
Water therapy indeed..!!🤣
Omo your way of calming anger is funny😂😂. Like you drink water😂😂.
Yeah. That's my therapy.
Wow,that’s beautiful to hear😁🥺
You should try out too.
Abi oo, na to just drink water drop cup 😅... Taking deep breaths work sometimes but not everyone remembers to do that. Some kinds of rage are so infuriating that we blow up like a bomb unknowingly and end up taking regrettable actions... May we not experience that kind anger sha.
I also think walking away is the best option and it works for me too.
Happy weekend! ❤️🤗
Certainly. Walking away or taking a deep breath are therapies angry people could try out not to explode.
I like your method. But like I replied to @glorydee earlier...
As in clear your throat to answer the person more🤣🤣
Exactly, my point really.
Then you are not ready to tame the temperament. If one must apply the water therapy, he should be ready to follow the effect.
Very well then. Apart from anger issues here, I have heard about the tremendous things water does when utilized in therapy. I believe it won't be an exception here.
I want to specially appreciate @sam.hangout for allowing God use you to create this opportunity for us here in Naija. You know as they say, "no place like home" I feel at home here.
For this week talking about anger management.
In our day to day activities, we are prone to meet things to make us angry. But I see anger as a choice. You can decide to be angry or do otherwise.
But when one is already angry, it can be controlled in so many ways like:
Leave that environment.
Ignore the person involved for some time and come back to tackle the issue.
Don't talk at that moment, until when you are no more angry.
And lots more.
I invite @hivedeb, and @desiredlady to tell us how they manage their anger.
Hmm this is interesting, everyone has different views about anger. For me, it's more like a "reflex emotion" if that word even exists 😅. What I mean is, anger is just an emotion that springs up when triggered. I believe that staying angry is what's a choice.
I like your methods, they're very similar to mine and I think that's the best approach.
Happy weekend! ❤️🤗
That is right.
Thanks for adding your voice dear. I do appreciate.
It's my pleasure 😊
👏
Good to see you came home before me. I will participate, was just passing. Will come back to that sweet rice and stew this weekend. Don't forget to keep my chicken and cake, you know......
Hahaha 😄. Olonger. You too like good things. 🤗 You sure say no be me go come first. Maybe I will delay my own rice so that I go chop your own first. 👐 Happy Sunday sweet heart.
I gree say I get olonger, sha just keep my choppingsons.
Am on rice strike for your sake
You no feet. You must cook rice tomorrow. Infact, I won come weekend. See me for your gate oh! 😄😄😄
Hahahaha, i gerikwe nke mmanu?
I ga eri biawa
No thanks. G/oil. I no dey come.
I am seeing and hearing rice and stew 🍲 here, please where is it happening oo 😂
Hahaha 😄. Is happening in your house. Tomorrow Sunday rice nah. See, make sure say you dm my own oh! 😂😂
Hahaha.
Noo
I need party rice
Where is the party happening? I don't mind taking the available car to Lagos. 😄
You never reach house....still passing cos I haven't seen your hand or is it just me?
Hahaha, I dey come
We are still graciously waiting for you, comrade..
Lol, I don show since ogbeni
Oh, I see you..!😎
Babe... passing by lolz
Come home abeg, we need you here mummy 😂
Hahaha, if you eat this mamas food eeeeh....
Am home already...wetin you cook?
Hahaha
Semo with bitterleaf soup 🍲
Abeg serve my own or make I serve myself?
Happy Sunday
Hahaha
No wahala
Wait for it😅
Hmmmmmm your matter na hmmmm, you never see someone wey be say in main purpose na to discomfort you heheeh 😂😂😂 you go vex my sister and I love your remedy he be like say I go dey use am jejejeje
Na your papa born you. You be real naija pikin. Thanks dear. I love you.
Hehehehe 🤣🤣🤣 Omo you get level naija is not the land of suegbe, na fighter full here oh heheheh 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Good morning Naija pikin. I believe say you sleep well well. Doo. Make you just de jolly for Jesus. Hahaha 😄Hahaha 😄. @quduus1. You no go kill me with laughter 😂😂
Hehehe 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 lolz 😂🤣🤣 I am not a killer oh, but I am a clown 🤡🤡🤡...
Because your name is adeze in Christ...
Heheh 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 see you oppressing us with your name hehehe 🤣🤣🤣
Yes ohh. You won try! Hahaha 😄
First, what if it is in a moving car..?
But really it isn't easy. In a case where you are right and someone is already blabbing wrongly about you. There will be this high urge to prove yourself right o. Lowkey, when we meet someone who is usually mad angry, we know well to run away..🤣
My brother you are right. But you know that our people say that two people can't be mad at the same time.
If you get too angry with someone and you want to prove that you are right, that same person will still want to do all he can to prove you wrong. By this time the two of you are raising voice. How will people see? Even when you don't want to fight, you will end up fighting to prove your innocency.
Will you want to fight in the public? Hahaha 😄
Well, I believe this to an extent. But the people who say this are usually the older generation o. Our generation now ehn, a lot of people are mad together🤣😂
But many are working on themselves, especially in anger management.
Trmibot, you will not kill me with laugh. Hahaha 😄. Please don't join them to be mad oh before someone go break your head. 🙏
Thanks my Naija brother. Na your mama born you well. 💪
Nah.. I won't be mad at all, my dear.
I am sane right now.😁
I love your simple entry
Just hit the nail at the head
Nice one Ada 😊👍❤️
Thanks dear. You are a darling.
The task? Done and dusted!! It will definitely be a good thing to have leofinance logo listed on other platforms including design platforms, so we won't need to download or crop the logo everytime one needs it. @sam.hangout
I'm also highly honored to be tagged as an expected participant of this initiative.
And for this week's topic of discussion, I'll be right back......To start with, I must appreciate you @sam.hangout for this platform of knowledge because to me, It's a great platform for learning.
Hehehehe, please don't also forge the GitHub task
I'll do well to complete the task
Oaky bro
Hehehe you are welcome bro, this is a home for all feel at home bro
House of all 😁❤️
Hehehehe my brother, it is a house for all, asap drop your own
As in ehn, I dey wait 🥵.
Hehehe 🤣🤣 please let him land in piece na
No oo, he should come fast fast 😂
Yes oo one love for all 💕.
Hehehe copy cat
Thank you oo 😏
Hehehe ole thief 😂 hehehehe
E dey kanpe💪💓
Yes naw 🥰.
Awwn, see motivational speaker naw, nice words Foxy 👌❤️.
Hehehehe I learnt from the best my own love hope ❤️
I'm honored 🤲
Hehehe my love 😘 come over and watch over me heheh
It's like you are at the wrong place oo, this is Hope oo 🤧.
Hahaha, I love that but please don't forget to come back oo so that I will nor come and find you 🤧.
😁🤲
I'll always be here for you ..
I go no where
Better oo, I don't like missing people too much but it's so bad that I was very tired yesterday and I had to rest 😞.
Eeyah... Pele dear.
Thank you so much dear 🥰
You are welcome queen ❤️
Wow, lots of nice update 👌
Proudly a naija hiver✅👌
Verified 😂👍 Thanks so much @sam.hangout for the good work you are doing here.
Okay let me go and do the needful 🚴🚴🚴🚴🚴
Hehehe 🤣🤣 see this old woman 😁😁😁 y na
Baby fox 😂🦊😉
Hehehehe 🤣🤣🤣 you love Foxe's don't you???
Foxxxxxx😂😂😂😂😂
Allow me to make my entry in peace 🕊️🕊️🕊️
Hehehe did I stop you from entering hehehehe 🤣🤣🤣🤣
As in ehn 😂
Hmm, why do you even like foxes that much?
Hehehehe who ??
Me or nkem??? Hehehe 🤣🤣🤣
You of course, why do you like Foxy as your nickname?
So hope you are among this love network..
Eh what am I doing with my life?😌
Hahaha, na so I see am oo.
Am I supposed to see this...?😑
Better baby Foxy 😂👶
Hehehe you get mouth
Na you get mouth oo, me I'm just learning from you 🥵
Hehehehe 🤣🤣 you better not talk anything wey go make me slap your tongue out hehehe 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Hahaha, your momma na you dey call old woman abi?
Hehehe 🤣🤣🤣 she too old fashion abeg shift 🤨
Hahaha, that's why she is your mom naw, so you can teach her.
Hehehehe 🤣🤣🤣 for where, nkem Sabi fashion like sth Else ahahaha 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Hahaha, that's nice too, both of you can teach yourselves na
That guy has no respect for the elders
I still remember when fox was wearing diaper 👁️😉😂
As in ehn, he does not have any respect at all 😂😂.
Abi oo, those diapers days 😂😂.
😂😂😂😂
Seems he hasn't read this reply
Gentle trouble finder I am 🚴🚴🚴🚴🚴🚴🚴 @quduus1 show face here...you missed an interesting comment 😃
Hahaha, he is sleeping, he didn't sleep in the night, he was here giving me 109 comments 🤧🤧
AH, I see violence is in the eyes of the beholder. 😂
You even tush it well... wearing diapers ..or running around naked.🚶♀
😂😂😂😂😂
Leave me oo 😂🚴🚴🚴🚴
I move
Can you ride a bicycle in real life?🤔
Or...I rest my case
But why are you always on my neck? Huh?
You need a cane in your life ☺️😉
As in ehn, he is representing very well, I just hope we keep making him want to do more for us 🥰.
Together we can 👍🥰
Yes ma'am, team work is the dream work, hehe.
Talking about team work
Please see me on Whatsapp when you are free...we gat some brainstorming job to do 👍
Okay, I will Ma'am 😊
Oya o, we are waiting for you. We want to learn new ways to deal with anger because in this life wey we dey so, we know people go always make us vex.
Madam no vex o, i just wan ask weda u still dey vex?
😒🚶♂️🚶♂️🚶♂️🚶♂️🚶♂️🚶♂️🚶♂️🚶♂️🚶♂️🚶♂️🚶♂️🚶♂️
thank God I am able to participate in this week's hangout, I missed ya 'all last week.
HOW DO I DEAL WITH ANGER?
I am an extrovert, so when I get angry it shows on my face if the person I am angry at is an outsider, I get so much angry, but i will try to control myself and then just put it out of my mind because i might not meet that person again, but when its someone i am close with, and if itr is something that i am not at fault at, i will fight o, there's no two way about it, but if its something that doesn't require me fighting i will shout at them, then leave there, cause if i keep it to myself, i wouldn't get sleep, cause i will be having a grudge against the person. that's how i deal o, i fight or talk it out, i cannot be pretending for what is am not.
@constanceitohan come and join me here
Hehehehe 🤣🤣🤣🤣 you are very cool aswear, lolz 😂🤣🤣 you talk your mind and that is the end hehehehe 🤣🤣
I want to be like you mam
How is your daughter is she okay now???
It has been on my mind for some time
before nko, who will hold me
please o be like yourself
oh she is very fine now, thanks so much for checking o n her
Heheh 🤣🤣🤣 I want to be like boss woman hehehe 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Okay that is very good to hear
you supose say boss man abi you wan turn bobrisky?😂
Hehehehe 🤣🤣🤣 lolz bobrisky keh he risky ohhh I no want
Yes oo, it's good to voice out, you might just be surprised that the person you are angry at is not even aware of it.
The last time I asked her, she said her daughter is feeling better now 🥺.
Hehehe 🤣🤣 I no fit oh, I don't say it but some time off will make me better and dat is the end
I understand sha and it's okay but it should not be all the time.
Okay my love 😘
Smiles
Yeah, I agree, this happens a lot.
Yes it does 😊
IF you want to be like her, that one mean say you go dey slap some big mama wey no respect their self because of vex o LOLOLOLO🤣
My sister can slap o🤣🤣🤣🤣
make I run o🏃♀
Hehehehe 🤣🤣🤣 I rebuke am, I no do again dey your day my sister I go in peace
I love the fact that you know the type of person you are and it's really nice. I will advise that you try and stop fighting back, just tell the person why you and angry and try to forgive when they apologize. But I'd they don't apologize, I will advise you try your best to just walk away at that moment.
i try to do that, but they don't seem to want to listen. my sister I will try o, its easier said than done wen at that situation
I understand you, I've been in that situation before and I still experience it till date, I just keep trying.
It is not their fault entirely. We Nigerians have coconut heads!🤣
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 chai o. thank God I am not a Nigerian 😁
Then where are you from? 😒
Ethiopia?🚶♀
So you no see any other country to call? Na was for people I😀
This mama vex no be here o...
This mama don vex slap one older mama for my presence before, I shocked.. We dey learn sha.
Na why we dey here today, WE wan learn how to control our anger.😁
🙄🙄 that was in the past na, the spirit that control that girl doesn't control this woman now. I can only vex and rest. That's why I don't make friends and tend to stay away from people. Now I only fight with my sisters.🤪😀
LOLOLOL
Praiseeeeeee lord sombori ...Halleluyah....
Sorry o, wet in dey do you?🙄
Shey no be tesstimony?
Abi make I no praise God on your behalf? 😅
Na you sabi that one o
😒😑 I didn't see anyone holding the mic for testimony.. Or is it just me?
You came after we shared the grace na...Next time come early.. LOL
Well, at least I came to mark attendance sha..
ALright, I'll make sure to come early next time.
Well, is this a better thing? A testimony? Well, I only have a sister to fight with. You have sisters.WOW!
Wait first? This can't be true o. What if that old woman na...🤐? Make I no talk sha
😂😂No worry, I understand already LOL
Better o....Cos we can never be too sure.
😄
You fight or talk it out....
Like real fight?
Anyone my sister, anyone that fits the demand🤪
Are you sure you are an extrovert? Then, I don see a mentor 🙌
Low key, this your method for handling anger na long thing o. But I get it that at times you have to just say little but key things and then leave the area before the anger escalates.
Hmm , dey your dey o.
And yeah I know sometimes we gat to ignore, but it's always hard
No o, let me learn at thy humble feet.🙇♀
It can be hard truly but if we put deliberate effort into it, we will definitely come around o
No o. Please dey ur lane.
I guess so , but it can be hard you know?
Truly but it still does not mean it can not be tamed. You dig??
I get you. Everyone with his or her ways
For next week topic
WILL YOU GO FOR AN ANDROID PHONE (SAMSUNG GALAXY Z FOLD 4) OR AN IPHONE(IPHONE 14)..
IPHONE has now come into the world to dominate the other phones, it has now turned into a trend and it's selling rate has increased quite a lot in the market nowadays and mostly nobody wants to use an Android phone but iphone..
But at the same time we have a large population of people who love android especially Samsung phones
Let us know what you want, your preference, do you prefer android phone to iphone or vice versa??
State why you like either of the two
And also if you had the money to buy both would you buy it or invest???
Let us know why you love your choice and if you can convince anyone to like your choice ....
@samostically , this is my suggestion for next week topic..
This is a really good topic for discussion, I will love to read the responses of others on it. Nice one Foxy, keep it coming 🥰.
Hehehe okay my love, na your love dey ginger me aswear 🤫🤣😂 if you gimme kiss aswear I fit go gaga
Foxxxxx👁️👁️👁️
What did you say?🤔🤔
City 🌆 peeps must hear this
Lolz
Heheh let them hear oh, I am here with my love 😘 hope
Lover boy
What God has joined together, let Nkem no put asunder oo 😂😂
@sam.hangout come and see oo, a wedding might happen through hive naija engagement 👏👏😂🥳
Heheh 🤣🤣🤣🤣 now you are talking like nkem...@hopestylist, bia come over
Hahaha, please oo, you know that is how Foxy is oo, no wedding is happening oo.
Awwn, you are making me feel emotional oo, please stop it 🥵
Haha, please go and tell them oo, in fact screenshot this, lolz.
Wow
Hope just approved this ✅✅😂
Let me rush then 🚴🚴🚴🚴🚴🚴🚴🚴🚴🚴🚴🚴🚴🚴🚴🚴🚴🚴🚴
Hahaha, go and come and give us updates 😂😂
Hehehehe I like am Abeg goooooo
Lolz 😂😂
I saw it too, mama.
Who is this one 🤨😏
🚶♀️
I'm happy I can be a little source of motivation to you Foxy but you see that kiss, you will not get it because I don't want you to go gaga.
Nah..or yes! He can't handle it one bit. You try me😎
Hahaha, I won't try you 😅😅
Pls you must try me o.. Try meeeee😭!
Heheheh abi you smoke weed or what ???
She should kiss you hehehe 🤣🤣 you are up for Yaba hehe 😊😊😊
Comrade, no dey do like this now. You are violating bro code..
Hehehehe 🤣🤣🤣 see this one again😏🤨
Hehehe, yes naw 🤧
Did I just see love? Bro, you have more than enough loves...abeg leave small for us na.
You can leave @hopestylist for me abeg😉
Hahaha, see problem that you want to cause I'm this hang out, me I'm going first oo, I will come back later 🏃♀️🏃♀️.
Nah, at least a fellow comrade suppose thing about hin followers na. Not to chop everything.
Hehehehe 🤣🤣🤣 who are you, I don't share you Gerrit???
Who is this one
Hahaha, I pray Foxy understands that 😂😂.
Eheheh okay mi amor, go and come back love you too much
Foxy the Spanish Nino, lolz.
Who are you brother boy you go collect oh heheheh 🤣
Collect wetin.. In fact, I will just assume comrade vayulence mode
This is a very good suggestion.
Speaking of phones though,....
Are you taking about Samsung or andriods generally...
I never use Samsung before, I never even use Iphone.
Hehehehe Samsung is an Android phone lolz, yeah but you should have preference you have heard of iphone and Samsung before and their features heheheh
Very nice fox
Your inspiration never ends
Weldon 👌👍
Heheh 🤣🤣🤣🤣 thank you sir
Who is Sir?
Is it still Nkem?
Oh my goodness 🤣
Foxxxxxxxxx??
Hehehehe 🤣🤣🤣 accept it like that my oga heheeh 😂😂😂
Today I be your Oga, yesterday I be your mum, who knows wetin I go be tomorrow 😂
Bro, you want to set up a good fight of electronic faith and resurrect the anger we are trying to solve again.😄
Wow this is a nice topic😁
Okayyyyyy 😁😁.
Aswear 🤫🤫🤫 I mean am oh🔥🔥🔥
Hmm, okay oo, noted ✍️.
Here is my reply
I detach myself from the situation (person or whatever) that got me angry to calm myself...
The more I see the person or whatever at that moment, the more angrier I become.
This is how I effectively deal with the issue.
I.e if my mom, friend, siblings or anyone gets me angry to the extent that I'm beginning to shake, I excuse myself to avoid causing "yawa"....
Thanks for this platform everyone!
Heheheh you na simple guy oh wey you suppose don break head and bottles hejejej I no get mind oh hejejej just kidding....we share the same method my guy
Omo ... If I say make I scatter ground... Head fit roll 😂💔
Heheh 🤣🤣🤣 now you are talking 🤣🤣🤣🤣, break heads and bottle's Anyhow u want..
Violence is the new way of life, comrades!!
Head? Or HEADS? 🤣
As if your phone doesn't auto-correct...
Smh
Oh, auto-correct. I graciously understand your plight, comrade...!!
Autocorrect to the moon..!!
Bro, you sure say you be man like this? They get you angry and you begin to shake? To dance or what exactly?
But it is good you do excuse yourself before Olymu]pus falls!
The way you think amazes me sincerely!...💔
You dey feel me? Make I feel myself small 😎
It ain't easy..😁
You deserve something 😁
Oh my! Oya I am expecting it o, higher comrade...😭😁
No dey whine younger comrade biko 😂🙏
😂😂😂
That's his personality
Hahaha
I love your method of handling this anger....let me copywrite it now😂
Omo... Nibo😂.
Sope Otilor...
Izz gone 🙏😁
Let’s get started❤️😋
Yooo what's up guys? It's been a while since I dropped by here 🙂❤️.
How do I deal with anger?
In short, I sleep. What? Haven't you tried it before? You should. It's the best medicine. If someone or something has really vexed you ehh, just go and sleep. Thank me later 😊.
Ciao. 👋🏾
Your method looks serious, funny but deep! Uhm, you sleep? Wow, I have never thought of that before sef
Omo sleep ke😂😂😂😂like you just go to sleep when angry😂
Done ✅
Happy weekend Sam! 🤗 Thanks for the tag.
@sam.hangout for the GitHub, I just created an account and reacted to the task.👌👍
My quontri fiffle, I hail unah ooo. Hope unah dey wellu wellu?
Am glad to be with you again.
@quduus1, you do well
Being angry is not a bad thing but what can make it look as if it's bad is the way you handle it.
Me when am angry or someone offends me, I tell the person and if he feels to argue i let him be cos I will not want to waste my time arguing.
If it hurts me so much I let my husband know tell continue with my life.
Omo yes it’s best to let people be at times when angry.
@niglys, come and show your face here too. I know you will enjoy the vibe in here.
Thanks to @sam.hangout for the iniatitive
Thanks for the invite ma😊
Yes Im flowing with the vibe already 😅
Hahaha, welcome
Thank you 🤗
Task done and completed✅
It's a nice weekend vibe @quduus1 🤗
I know right😁
Yes my dear 😄