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RE: Hive-Naija Weekend Engagement #41 - "Dealing With Anger"

in Speak Peace2 years ago

These questions remind me of when I was much younger. As the last born in my house, there was little I could do whenever anyone angered me. So whenever I was angry, I used to go inside my wardrobe. It's a built in wardrobe and I was portable in size. Sometimes I'd stay there for so long and even fall asleep. That hasn't changed much, I no longer stay in the wardrobe though 😂, now I just prefer to be by myself.

Anger can be very powerful and I especially hate it when emotions dictate my actions (except love sha😌😂). Now if anyone angers me, I just leave their vicinity and tell myself to deal with it. I've heard this is bad but I guess that's when it's recurring.

I avoid talking, especially to the person who angered me because I might get so dramatic 😂😂. When I'm angry, I speak grammar that's not in my vocabulary on a normal day so I can't successfully communicate that moment. And when I'm angry-hurt, attempting to talk can open the flood gates😂😂, so talking is not an option.

Depending on the magnitude of the offence, sometimes I call my friends and rant to them. I have a friend, she knows how to talk me out of my anger (I don't know how she does it), even times when I'm the unreasonable one, she knows how to bring my head down.
Sometimes, I just lay down, listen to music and just let peace wash over me
And when I feel sooo physical with the anger, I literally do push-ups 😂😂 or stretches or when I'm outside I just focus on a game on my phone, a violent game 😂🤣. This level of anger is very rare for me and I avoid it as much as possible.

And there are times when I'm just angry at life in general, I simply ask myself why I'm angry and if anger is my best option. That usually solves it, I am able to dismiss the anger very quickly.

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🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣any anger that makes you speak grammar in this nija is a serious one🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣I can just imagine how you will finish speaking your grammar someone will pick one word and turn it to Ur nickname.

Aswear you never see anger wey go make you dey stammer heheheh

It happens to me too, that is when you should avoid me cause e don dey go another level

Heheheh Omo I fear you oh heheh commot body no Join body if you join body you collect 🤣🤣🤣🤣

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 you go collect.
Omo u be area oh

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 for real that's Nigeria for u ooo

😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣 I hope I never meet obnoxious people like that

Omo see grammarian na..... I'm shocked 😱😱 obnoxious....leme check my dictionary 🤣🤣🤣🤣

Stopeeet 😂😂🤣🤣

Omo so na your friend you Dey throw the anger on😁😂😂😂😂.that’s nice tho.

Heheheh abeg come follow me vex, you go speak English and Yoruba hehehehe 🤣🤣🤣

😂😂 no o, e no bad reach how you talk am na 🤣🤣

Hehehehehe 😂😂😂 Lolz 😂🤣 they don get your password you never know anything LMAO 🤣🤣🤣🤣 thy don give you efo riro hehehehe 🤣🤣🤣🤣 you don chop soup tire they don know your password heheeh 😂😂😂😂

🤣🤣😂😂 eweee, but if I say make I reset password, na who I wan follow talk?, Woo, make I lookaway jare 😂😂