thank God I am able to participate in this week's hangout, I missed ya 'all last week.
HOW DO I DEAL WITH ANGER?
I am an extrovert, so when I get angry it shows on my face if the person I am angry at is an outsider, I get so much angry, but i will try to control myself and then just put it out of my mind because i might not meet that person again, but when its someone i am close with, and if itr is something that i am not at fault at, i will fight o, there's no two way about it, but if its something that doesn't require me fighting i will shout at them, then leave there, cause if i keep it to myself, i wouldn't get sleep, cause i will be having a grudge against the person. that's how i deal o, i fight or talk it out, i cannot be pretending for what is am not.
@constanceitohan come and join me here
Hehehehe 🤣🤣🤣🤣 you are very cool aswear, lolz 😂🤣🤣 you talk your mind and that is the end hehehehe 🤣🤣
I want to be like you mam
How is your daughter is she okay now???
It has been on my mind for some time
before nko, who will hold me
please o be like yourself
oh she is very fine now, thanks so much for checking o n her
Heheh 🤣🤣🤣 I want to be like boss woman hehehe 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Okay that is very good to hear
you supose say boss man abi you wan turn bobrisky?😂
Hehehehe 🤣🤣🤣 lolz bobrisky keh he risky ohhh I no want
Yes oo, it's good to voice out, you might just be surprised that the person you are angry at is not even aware of it.
The last time I asked her, she said her daughter is feeling better now 🥺.
Hehehe 🤣🤣 I no fit oh, I don't say it but some time off will make me better and dat is the end
I understand sha and it's okay but it should not be all the time.
Okay my love 😘
Smiles
Yeah, I agree, this happens a lot.
Yes it does 😊
IF you want to be like her, that one mean say you go dey slap some big mama wey no respect their self because of vex o LOLOLOLO🤣
My sister can slap o🤣🤣🤣🤣
make I run o🏃♀
Hehehehe 🤣🤣🤣 I rebuke am, I no do again dey your day my sister I go in peace
I love the fact that you know the type of person you are and it's really nice. I will advise that you try and stop fighting back, just tell the person why you and angry and try to forgive when they apologize. But I'd they don't apologize, I will advise you try your best to just walk away at that moment.
i try to do that, but they don't seem to want to listen. my sister I will try o, its easier said than done wen at that situation
I understand you, I've been in that situation before and I still experience it till date, I just keep trying.
It is not their fault entirely. We Nigerians have coconut heads!🤣
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 chai o. thank God I am not a Nigerian 😁
Then where are you from? 😒
Ethiopia?🚶♀
So you no see any other country to call? Na was for people I😀
Don't mind me that was where my brain first went..
Okay, let's try again. Zimbabwe?
This mama vex no be here o...
This mama don vex slap one older mama for my presence before, I shocked.. We dey learn sha.
Na why we dey here today, WE wan learn how to control our anger.😁
🙄🙄 that was in the past na, the spirit that control that girl doesn't control this woman now. I can only vex and rest. That's why I don't make friends and tend to stay away from people. Now I only fight with my sisters.🤪😀
LOLOLOL
Praiseeeeeee lord sombori ...Halleluyah....
Sorry o, wet in dey do you?🙄
Shey no be tesstimony?
Abi make I no praise God on your behalf? 😅
Na you sabi that one o
😒😑 I didn't see anyone holding the mic for testimony.. Or is it just me?
You came after we shared the grace na...Next time come early.. LOL
Well, at least I came to mark attendance sha..
ALright, I'll make sure to come early next time.
Well, is this a better thing? A testimony? Well, I only have a sister to fight with. You have sisters.WOW!
Wait first? This can't be true o. What if that old woman na...🤐? Make I no talk sha
😂😂No worry, I understand already LOL
Better o....Cos we can never be too sure.
😄
You fight or talk it out....
Like real fight?
Anyone my sister, anyone that fits the demand🤪
Are you sure you are an extrovert? Then, I don see a mentor 🙌
Low key, this your method for handling anger na long thing o. But I get it that at times you have to just say little but key things and then leave the area before the anger escalates.
Hmm , dey your dey o.
And yeah I know sometimes we gat to ignore, but it's always hard
No o, let me learn at thy humble feet.🙇♀
It can be hard truly but if we put deliberate effort into it, we will definitely come around o
No o. Please dey ur lane.
I guess so , but it can be hard you know?
Truly but it still does not mean it can not be tamed. You dig??
I get you. Everyone with his or her ways
Exactly, my point...