I have not seen a day were I surf the internet and not come across a news about a rape victim or even someone that was killed after they've been raped. The world breed more evil minded humans each day and this is as a result of the wrong kind of education giving to so many as they grow (some don't even get any form of education at all). They see what is wrong as right, and the most annoying part is that, often times the victims are the once that people troll on social media, people still look for one way or another to justify the wrong doings of others. It's time the young male in our society receive the right Education concerning any topic regarding a female. This way, they will grow with it and can go on to pass the knowledge to the next generations.
How about we start educating our sons the importance of the word NO, how about we start making them understand how important it is to respect the decisions of others when they use that term. When she says NO she's not interested, it's important we respect her enough to let her go. What do you gain when you abuse somebody's body? All you've just done is affect the psychological state of that person with your act, forcing yourself on someone just because you feel it's right for you to be inside them. No it's not, nothing is as beautiful as having CONSENT to do something, the female body needs to be respected. This post has been long over due, it's 1:49am (as at the time I started writing this), as usual, I decided to do some light reading by surfing the internet and there is a news about rape. People should educate people more about consent because it's sad that most people feel they must have any lady they see at all cost, which is not true.
Just when we are talking about consent, that is when you will hear a random male (or even female) say, "these ladies should always dress properly to avoid being rape victims", will you keep quiet before I crush you with my empty wallet 😡, stop trying to justify nonsense, the way a lady dress does not give you access to her pants neither does it mean you should force yourself on her. Even the worst lady out there deserves some respect when it comes to her body, you can only advice someone to dress the way they want society to address them, not you opening your mouth to pour out nonsense. Even if she's a prostituted, as long as she doesn't give you her consent, you have no right to force yourself on her. You know what, I put it to you that you lack self-discipline, yes, I said it. If you are disciplined enough, I don't think some displayed lap in a very short skirt and displaying of boobs should warrant you forcing yourself on someone. NO means No, let's just stop trying to justify nonsense and call a spade a spade, the evil once are more, people just have evil inside of them and waiting for the right time to display it to the world.
REJECTION! If you have a son, teach him that word very well, make him understand he will be rejected over and over again. So many young men out there can't handle rejection, they can't live with the thought of asking a lady out and she rejects them, so what's the next thing that cross most of their minds? They conclude it's best they force themselves on the lady, which is wrong. A lady said she doesn't want to be with you, please pick yourself up and move on, she said no she doesn't want sex yet, please respect her decision or better still you can end it since you know you can't be with her without having sex. People need to understand that, the fact they feel rejected does not mean it's the end, there are other persons out there that will accept you, understand you can't get everything you want in this life, some people are designed to be a phase in our lives, so, just accept the person does not want you and move on. You better not open your mouth to say, "After spending on her", I will beat you with an empty can if you say that😡, life is all about choice, and you made your choice when you choose to spend on her, if you didn't spend on her she would have still reject you, because the heart want what it want. You spend on her does not mean you should destroy her life or even take her life, how about you just move on please. Understand the message here, pick yourself up and move.
You will hear people talk about the ladies causing most of these things by either showing off their body to tempt guys, or deceiving the guys just to spend their money or you will hear them say, why did she meet him in his place if she doesn't want to have sex, or some will even say, if she doesn't want sex why allow the guy to spend on you? I told myself, I wouldn't blame no lady on this post, whatever reasons you have in your head to justify the nonsense you want to justify, NO STILL MEANS NO. The young lady that was recently raped and killed after going out to seek a job, did she tempt anyone with her body or did she spend any guys money anyhow, I just feel what's wrong is wrong. We should understand that we don't have to destroy someone just to get what we want, like YO! Just because you want to penetrate someone you would go that length, I feel you are not a man. A real man will go through the stress of asking a lady out, and when she eventually say yes, he will do what he can to love her and hope to get his love reciprocated, and when the time is right, it will be a joint decision from both parties, that yes, let's go ahead to make love with each other. Now that's when you enjoy sex.
Sex is deep! People only see it from the surface level, but that shit is beyond just penetrating someone and have them moan. You both are connecting in a whole different level, exchanging both your positive and negative force with one another, it is deeper than you can imagine. Respect a lady enough to allow her give you consent, she kisses you doesn't mean she even want sex in the moment, always learn to ask questions, ask if it's okay to do it. Get full approval before racing to her pant like a lost puppy. I'm tired, I'm tired of innocent young ladies appearing on the news everyday because one asshole who didn't get the right knowledge about consent rape them. I am tired of reading news of people dying everyday after being raped. I am tired of people going to social medias to justify rape, I'm tired of people seeing the wrong that other persons do and stil find a what to say it's right, honestly, I'm tired. It's just exhausting.
Teach your son, a lady should be treated with love and respect, teach him to guard a lady rather than destroy her, teach him he is a king and a king always treat a lady like a queen, teach him to respect a ladies decision when she says she is not ready, teach him self-discipline, let him know that not every displayed thigh is an invitation to have sex, teach him to think with his brain and not his dick, make him understand and respect the female body, let your little boy know he can't always have all he want, help him understand he will be rejected at some point, make him know that even if he get away with the act, the young lady will live with the effect all her life, educate him about the side effects surrounding the whole rape thing, make him understand he should never claim a life he didn't give, help him understand that NO MEANS NO.
PLEASE, SAY NO TO RAPE, SAVE LIVES TODAY!
P.S.: I know some persons will say, but guys also get raped, that's true and I agree with you and the same respect should be given to a male, but then, the case is more for the ladies.
Have a lovely day, thanks for reading!
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Nice post!!
Thank you very much
This is a good advice to the parents. Consent should be teach to children. I couldn't agree more than to retold this "NO means NO". It is a good read. !discovery 25
Thank you, I appreciate your comment. Definitely these once have to understand what consent is, and they can only understand if the message always come to them every day like an anthem.
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Saludos! Estoy tan feliz de haber leído está publicación! Vivimos en una sociedad que lamentablemente está caracterizada por el machismo romantizado, dónde entre juegos y risas fomentan la no aceptación del rechazo, el irrespeto y la agresión. Entender la palabra no, sin sentirse herido, es muy importante en la crianza de nuestros niños y niñas!
Greetings! I am so happy to have read this publication! We live in a society that unfortunately is characterized by romanticized machismo, where between games and laughter they encourage the non-acceptance of rejection, disrespect and aggression. Understanding the word no, without feeling hurt, is very important in the upbringing of our children!
Good advice. Education is needed for children so that they are more familiar with the environment out there.
Yes, it is much needed. And also to help them understand those acts are not right and should not put others in pain because rape affect people for life.