I won't say the questions here as I'm not keen to disclose the details or why they were asked; privacy and all.
It's good to read that you question yourself, it's the best way to go I think. It's a shame you don't do much with the answers (mostly) so I wonder if you need to adjust the questions and what you do when the answers eventuate?
A lot of things in life are out of our control, which ends up affecting a lot of the questions I've asked.
Yep for sure, so control the controllable things and let the rest happen as they will.
That's understandable.
I haven't considered adjusting the questions, but my mind usually has a lot of reasons already set up to support the answer. It's worth a shot.
It's all about forcing yourself to think differently. what's the worst that could happen...thinking and acting differently, if things aren't working anyway? You might be surprised. Doing the same thing and expecting different results is the definition of madness they say. Good luck.
Thanks