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Hello hello my dear community, I greet you hoping that everything is very well in your lives and attending the call of our dear @damarysvibra who invites us to dissertation on [Defects or potentialities], I would like to take advantage of the beginning of the month to reflect on this important point to remember who I am and where I am going I invite you to enjoy the exercise with me!
Noviembre es un mes ¡Que me encanta! quizás para muchos es un mes donde ya estan "echando el resto", pero en mi caso, lo he convertido en un mes de antesala de celebración, ya vienen las vacaciones, se obtiene mas dinerito (en otros tiempos🤣), y se hace una instropección cargada de visualización para el año siguiente "porque este ya no se pudo"🙃.
Para mí, es especial porque 🎂¡ES MI CUMPLEAÑOS!🎂 y comienzo a manifestar lo que quiero como parte de mi celebración anual, ya que es mi día, el día que el universo eligió para mí. Así que este tema de evaluar mis defectos, quizás es propicio para hacer un exámen próximo a lo que quiero y debo mejorar en mi vida.
Yo también he aprendido a que los defectos son conductas limitantes que no nos permiten avanzar o lograr lo que queremos. Por eso, al reconocerlos no es con el fin de amargarnos o juzgarnos por ellos, sino la oportunidad de tomar acción de movernos en pro del bienestar individual y colectivo.
Yo era una persona defectuosa, mi máquina vino sin garantía y a riesgo de quién me quisiera comprar 🤣. Mi círculo ha sido muy venevolente conmigo, por lo que me siento afortunada. Sin embargo, no puedo tapar el sol con un dedo, por ello hablar de mis defectos lo puedo hacer muy fácil (por aquello de nuestra falta de autoestima), pero ahora lo hago con la disposición de convertirlo en cualidades que me ayuden a ser una mejor persona cada día😍.
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November is a month that I love! maybe for many it is a month where they are already “doing the rest”, but in my case, I have turned it into a month of celebration, vacations are coming, you get more money (in other times🤣), and you make an instropection loaded with visualization for the following year “because this year you couldn't”🙃.
For me, it's special because 🎂IT'S MY BIRTHDAY!🎂 and I start manifesting what I want as part of my annual celebration, as it's my day, the day the universe chose for me. So this theme of assessing my shortcomings, perhaps is conducive to take a close examination of what I want and need to improve in my life.
I have also learned that defects are limiting behaviors that do not allow us to move forward or achieve what we want. Therefore, recognizing them is not with the purpose of becoming bitter or judging ourselves for them, but the opportunity to take action to move towards individual and collective wellbeing.
I was a defective person, my machine came without warranty and at the risk of whoever wanted to buy me 🤣. My circle has been very venevolent with me, so I feel fortunate. However, I can't cover the sun with a finger, so talking about my defects can be very easy (because of our lack of self-esteem), but now I do it with the willingness to turn it into qualities that help me to be a better person every day😍.
For me, it's special because 🎂IT'S MY BIRTHDAY!🎂 and I start manifesting what I want as part of my annual celebration, as it's my day, the day the universe chose for me. So this theme of assessing my shortcomings, perhaps is conducive to take a close examination of what I want and need to improve in my life.
I have also learned that defects are limiting behaviors that do not allow us to move forward or achieve what we want. Therefore, recognizing them is not with the purpose of becoming bitter or judging ourselves for them, but the opportunity to take action to move towards individual and collective wellbeing.
I was a defective person, my machine came without warranty and at the risk of whoever wanted to buy me 🤣. My circle has been very venevolent with me, so I feel fortunate. However, I can't cover the sun with a finger, so talking about my defects can be very easy (because of our lack of self-esteem), but now I do it with the willingness to turn it into qualities that help me to be a better person every day😍.
¿Quién no se queja en este país? Falta con despertarse de madrugada, y pasar horas pensando en tanta carencia y necesidad que se vive ¿Me he quejado? ¡DE TODO Y CON TODOS! Mi vida era una eterna queja.
Ahora, todos lo hacemos, pero ¿quién quiere una persona quejona a su lado? creo que nadie. Por eso dejé de hacerlo. No es que no me moleste la situación o me haga la vista gorda y mucho menos sea conformista ¡NO SEÑOR! yo sé lo que me molesta pero ¿Todo el día en ese asunto? Pues no. He aprendido que las cosas que puedo cambiar, puedo actuar para ello y lo hago; Las que no, con todo el dolor de mi alma y respirando muchas veces, las dejo pasar sin dejar que me afecten.
Un ejemplo de ello, es mi situación de salud. Sin quejarme busqué soluciones, tanto públicas como privadas; las públicas, esperé mis tiempos reglamentarios de atención, en lo privado, con la necesidad de conseguir el dinero sin hacer mucha bulla; gracias a mi actitud, en otros tiempos no hubiese quedado viva de las rabias agarradas, pero ahora me lo tomé con calma y logré superar cada obstáculo. Sin embargo, no puedo cambiar por ejemplo, el trato en los buses (que es deplorable) pero si no tengo dinero para comprarme un carro y es el medio de transporte que tengo ¿No lo uso? no, trato de usar algunos en buen estado, salgo mucho antes para prevenir retrasos y trato amablemente al señor para poder recibir el mismo trato ¿Cómo me ha ido? mejor que antes de vivir solo de la queja ¡Ah! y donde puedo ir caminando, evito su uso😉.
English version
To find in fatalism, the glory.
Who does not complain in this country? It is enough to wake up at dawn, and spend hours thinking about so much lack and need that is lived. My life was an eternal complaint.
Now, we all do it, but who wants a complainer by their side? I don't think anyone does. That's why I stopped doing it. It's not that I don't mind the situation or that I turn a blind eye and even less that I am a conformist, NO SIR! I know what bothers me, but do I spend all day on that issue? Well no. I have learned that the things I can change, I can act for it and I do; The ones I can't, with all the pain in my soul and breathing many times, I let them pass without letting them affect me.
An example of this is my health situation. Without complaining I looked for solutions, both public and private; the public ones, I waited my regulatory times of attention, in the private, with the need to get the money without making a lot of fuss; thanks to my attitude, in other times I would not have stayed alive from the rages, but now I took it calmly and managed to overcome every obstacle. However, I cannot change for example, the treatment in the buses (which is deplorable) but if I do not have money to buy a car and it is the means of transportation I have, I do not use it? no, I try to use some in good condition, I leave much earlier to prevent delays and I treat the gentleman kindly so I can receive the same treatment. How have I done? better than before, living only with complaints.
Who does not complain in this country? It is enough to wake up at dawn, and spend hours thinking about so much lack and need that is lived. My life was an eternal complaint.
Now, we all do it, but who wants a complainer by their side? I don't think anyone does. That's why I stopped doing it. It's not that I don't mind the situation or that I turn a blind eye and even less that I am a conformist, NO SIR! I know what bothers me, but do I spend all day on that issue? Well no. I have learned that the things I can change, I can act for it and I do; The ones I can't, with all the pain in my soul and breathing many times, I let them pass without letting them affect me.
An example of this is my health situation. Without complaining I looked for solutions, both public and private; the public ones, I waited my regulatory times of attention, in the private, with the need to get the money without making a lot of fuss; thanks to my attitude, in other times I would not have stayed alive from the rages, but now I took it calmly and managed to overcome every obstacle. However, I cannot change for example, the treatment in the buses (which is deplorable) but if I do not have money to buy a car and it is the means of transportation I have, I do not use it? no, I try to use some in good condition, I leave much earlier to prevent delays and I treat the gentleman kindly so I can receive the same treatment. How have I done? better than before, living only with complaints.
Si, era esa persona que conoce a alguien e inmediatamente quiere resolverle la vida, meterse en sus problemas y cambiarse el color de cabello para ser aceptada, super intensa y asfixiante me comportaba. Cuando conocía a alguien, me preocupaba por la otra persona, la atendía, ayudaba y después terminaba asfixiándola o no recibiendo la misma atención. Me culpaba, me frustraba pensar ¿Por qué no recibo lo mismo? He tenido "amistades" que quiero que hagamos todo juntas, y estoy para ellas siempre, pero cuando he necesitado no ha estado para mí, porque sus prioridades son otras.
Esta situación me acompañó durante mucho tiempo, pero ahora entiendo que no es que se cansan o doy mucho, es que cada quién da lo que tiene en su corazón. Nadie puede ser bondadoso si no conoce de la bondad ¿Me entienden? Por eso ahora, doy sin esperar la misma respuesta sino porque quiero.
Entiendo que todos tienen ocupaciones, las personas cambian de roles, se crean alianzas con otras personas, se mudan y por supuesto las prioridades cambian y eso esta bien, por eso dejo la intensidad de lado y me resulta mucho mejor.
English version
Smothering people.
Yes, I was that person who meets someone and immediately wants to solve their life, get into their problems and change their hair color to be accepted, I was super intense and suffocating. When I met someone, I cared about the other person, cared for them, helped them, and then ended up suffocating them or not getting the same attention. I would blame myself, I would get frustrated thinking why don't I get the same? I have had “friends” that I want us to do everything together, and I am always there for them, but when I have needed them, they have not been there for me, because their priorities are different.
This situation accompanied me for a long time, but now I understand that it is not that they get tired or that I give too much, it is that everyone gives what they have in their heart. No one can be kind if he does not know about kindness, do you understand me? That is why now, I give without expecting the same answer but because I want to.
I understand that everyone has occupations, people change roles, they create alliances with other people, they move and of course priorities change and that is fine, that is why I leave the intensity aside and it is much better for me.
Yes, I was that person who meets someone and immediately wants to solve their life, get into their problems and change their hair color to be accepted, I was super intense and suffocating. When I met someone, I cared about the other person, cared for them, helped them, and then ended up suffocating them or not getting the same attention. I would blame myself, I would get frustrated thinking why don't I get the same? I have had “friends” that I want us to do everything together, and I am always there for them, but when I have needed them, they have not been there for me, because their priorities are different.
This situation accompanied me for a long time, but now I understand that it is not that they get tired or that I give too much, it is that everyone gives what they have in their heart. No one can be kind if he does not know about kindness, do you understand me? That is why now, I give without expecting the same answer but because I want to.
I understand that everyone has occupations, people change roles, they create alliances with other people, they move and of course priorities change and that is fine, that is why I leave the intensity aside and it is much better for me.
Dígamos que un defecto que me acompaña aún es que no me creo todavía de lo que soy capaz; quizás todavía no entiendo lo que valgo y todo lo que he logrado, sino que me doy un poco duro por la situación económica actual.
Debo aprender que eso no es todo en la vida y que hoy por hoy tengo que felicitarme y celebrar que he logrado muchas cosas donde nadie se ha atrevido o muchos se han quedado en el camino.
Quizás también me hace falta ampliar mi círculo de amigos, mejorar mi ámbito laboral, porque creo que uno se acostumbra a lo mismo y no hay nada genuino o sorprendente cuando hacen lo mismo siempre de la misma forma, lo que nos estanca y no salimos de esa zona a buscar desafíos que nos hace crecer.
Tarea para este 2025, que vengo intentando desde 2020... Seguimos proyectando🌻.
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Inferiority
Let's say that a defect that still accompanies me is that I still do not believe what I am capable of; perhaps I still do not understand what I am worth and all that I have achieved, but I give myself a little hard by the current economic situation.
I must learn that this is not everything in life and that today I have to congratulate myself and celebrate that I have achieved many things where no one has dared or many have fallen by the wayside.
Perhaps I also need to expand my circle of friends, improve my work environment, because I think you get used to the same thing and there is nothing genuine or surprising when you always do the same thing in the same way, which stagnates us and we do not leave that area to seek challenges that make us grow.
Task for this 2025, which I have been trying to do since 2020? We continue projecting.
Let's say that a defect that still accompanies me is that I still do not believe what I am capable of; perhaps I still do not understand what I am worth and all that I have achieved, but I give myself a little hard by the current economic situation.
I must learn that this is not everything in life and that today I have to congratulate myself and celebrate that I have achieved many things where no one has dared or many have fallen by the wayside.
Perhaps I also need to expand my circle of friends, improve my work environment, because I think you get used to the same thing and there is nothing genuine or surprising when you always do the same thing in the same way, which stagnates us and we do not leave that area to seek challenges that make us grow.
Task for this 2025, which I have been trying to do since 2020? We continue projecting.
Hoy inicio de mes, les deseo que sigan avanzando, que tengan mucha disciplina para cambiar lo que no les gusta y tener empatía con las personas que tienen ciertas actitudes, porque nadie sabe por lo que esta pasando cada quién.
La portada la hice en Canvas al igual que el separador.
El traductor es DeepL.🎂🎁🍷
English version
Today at the beginning of the month, I wish you to keep moving forward, to have a lot of discipline to change what you don't like and to have empathy with people who have certain attitudes, because no one knows what each one of us is going through.
The photographs are my property.
The cover was made in Canvas as well as the separator.
The translator is DeepL.
The photographs are my property.
The cover was made in Canvas as well as the separator.
The translator is DeepL.
Hola, @florecitamejias, entre las tantas cosas que tiene el reconocer lo que somos, es que al sentirnos liberados y poderlo apalabrar parte del camino está andado, sin querer queriendo y muchas veces queriendo nuestra mente trabaja en ese y cuando incurrimos vamos a incurrir en el "defecto" una vocecita mental nos dice: ¡Epa, epa agarra mínimo que lo estás haciendo otra vez, y allí paramos, y si no paramos por lo menos le bajamos un poco al asunto pendiente.
Fue un gusto leerte, gracias por compartir tu experiencia de crecimiento,😊
Así mismo es, nosotros (incoscientes o no) sabemos que algo esta mal y no funciona; es tarea de todos reconocer y transformarnos.
Gracias a usted por la oportunidad de crecer en esta maravillosa comunidad.
Un abrazo de fin de semana🤗🌻.
Hola mi bella y muy estimada amiga @florecitamejias silvestre que placer poder entrar a este espacio tan íntimo de tu vida. Primeramente te felicito por la valentía de reconocer esas actitudes que nos pueden acompañar y limitar en ciertas acciones de nuestras vidas, pero déjeme decirte que esto es primordial para poder crecer, continua con esos hermosos sentimientos que te caracterizan y que no te límite la ausencia de empatía.
Un abrazo 😘😘
Gracias mi estimada amiga por tu comentario y lectura; es para mí placentero poder ayudar con mi experiencia en esta comunidad, pero mas gratificante es saber que ustedes mis amigos a la distancia, puedan conocer un poco más de mí, superando las barreras físicas.
Hola, me pasaba algo similar con eso de dar y no recibir lo mismo, eso me ponía de malas, pero con el tiempo aprendí que no debo esperar lo mismo que doy y entender que los demas no tienen que pensar como yo . Saludos.
Y nos va más bonito😊. Gracias por leerme y tu valioso comentario🤗.