Parents are the divine gift for children. It says that God can't reach everyone directly, and that's why God sent our parents to us. Parents are the ones who bring us to this beautiful world, take care of us, and guide us as long as we need it.
For a child, parents should be the most respectable people because they deserve it. It's the responsibility of parents to correct the mistakes of their child, but that doesn't mean they don't make mistakes while guiding their child. Let me share some common situations that occur many times.
As humans, getting angry is not a surprising matter. Parents can be angry for various kinds of reasons. It is unfortunate that many of them vent their anger on those who become visible in front of them, and their kids become the victims of it. Sometimes, they say inappropriate and harsh words to their child, and it's totally unfair. Children can't say any word against parents, and if they do so, they may end up being beaten by their parents. In such kinds of situations, parents generally make mistakes, and the more surprising matter is that parents never apologize to their child even if they understand that it's the mistake. I think in such a case, parents are like hypocrites. They think that it's shameful to apologize to their kid for their wrong action, and so they don't do it, but it creates a bad impact in the mind of their child. Doesn't it mean parents are responsible for teaching their kids not to say sorry to others if they feel shameful? It's also ridiculous to hear they feel ashamed to apologize because they dared to make mistakes.
The other thing parents mostly do is compare. They compare that with other kids, especially when it comes to studying, depending on the results. Everyone is not the same, and the capability of each child is different. Believe it or not, parents are the ones who humiliate their children most of the time by comparing them with others. I think no parents deserve to compare, and I think it's their failure because their child can't compete with others. Parents can be blamed for it because there is a huge possibility their child didn't perform well because of genetic reasons; otherwise, they were not well enough to guide their children, and as a result, their children can't make good results like toppers. I am sure if any child says to their parents why they are not rich like other parents of their classmates, then they may feel very bad. But I think most of the parents deserve it, as they do the thing with children.
I don't want anyone to disrespect their parents, but sometimes I feel parents also should feel the similar experience of what they do with their child. Although they are divine gifts, they are not correct all the time. They also should feel sorry for their wrong action and apologize for it, which they rarely do.
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That's a great mindset! Consistency is key. Good luck on your journey @intishar!
Any parent who could apologise to their children without thinking they aren't in the position to do that is teaching their kids how to be responsible and do what is right. But some parents are so arrogant and proud to even utter such words but would beat their kids for the slightest mistake. Parents also should consider their kids' feelings too.
Those little little incidents makes impact badly in their mind but they can't express it. They also know that they were punished for no reason and when such kind of thing occurs with children, negative thoughts can take control easily. Sometimes, they dare to do suicide also. So-called parents thoughts can't be changed so easily. We just can try not to happen with our future generation when we will be in the role of parents.
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