You might laugh but let me sure you my today’s incident.
I was wearing black with black blazer and black peshawari chapal.
When I was ready , I said to me “ aaj to chikna lg raha hu”😂😂 well and hardly 30 minutes might have passed that I suffered an accodent as I fell down of motorbike. I got injuries and my suit was ruptured as well.
So yes one’s own nazar also affects.
I giess sadqa is best way. Sadqa protects you from harm. Death is inevitable but sadqa protects us grom avoidable hurts and injuries