That's the thing about suicide; it leaves guilt in the hearts of those that could have done something to stop it, but didn't—because they just didn't read between the lines. It's a really complicated discussion, however.
I think the baseline of it all is probably "never think anyone is too strong to give in to losing themselves completely." I have been close before. Yet, I still consider myself "too strong to give in." I bet many of my friends think the same about me. But like you have said, your friend sure wasn't himself that day. What about the days one cannot be themselves.
You couldn't have thought he needed that much help. Maybe, if he had provided more context it would have been easily discerned. I'm not blaming anyone, but the truth is it's all complicated.
We indeed should all pay more attention to people and their underlying emotions, because many of us lie with our words and expressions when we are asked "How are you today?"
I'm sorry about your friend, Humbe.
True! it is a complicated matter and I agree that we shouldn't think anyone is too strong to give in to losing themselves completely.
I also consider myself too strong to give in and probably people around me think the same. But mental distress can make anyone lose themselves and this is why I never question one's ability to cope when they are overwhelmed with hopelessness.
Exactly! And sometimes just being kind to people around us can be enough as many have a lot going on but are not comfortable sharing their battles.
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Oh, yes. Being kind to people can actually save lives, and we often do not see it. There are people that think that the world hates them, but when some genuine love comes their way, it lights up their entire life, saving them from drowning in their minds.
Well said!
Indeed, kindness and love can save one from drawing in their minds.💫