I don't harbor any specific personal drama talking to you. If you're talking about the recent downvote made on your comment, I follow a trail and it's inconvenient to unsubscribe for me. I personally don't find any sense downvoting something that has no potential payout (other than it being an automated spam) because it's a waste of dv mana compared to other things that it could be used for.
I think putting your efforts into a productive and positive direction is something worth respecting. But I still stay firm that if you're going to downvote mean comments (that have no payout and just for the sake of disagreeing) it's not really changing people's stand at all. It's just muscling staked power and no different from what the bullies you identified against.
I don't see downvotes as a means of censorship. I've seen people get muted and have a low rep but conversing with them seems fine. Like the tag doesn't even make sense but ok I suppose some are bothered with the label but not me. It's a just a matter of putting the extra effort to click "display comment" that makes what they have to say visible.