After marriage, I study with my husband's money, which my mother-in-law never wanted. But my husband Adnan taught me. I don't know why my mother-in-law can't accept it. Whenever he gets a chance, he will listen to harsh words about my studies and insult me in front of everyone. Why he does that can't even ignite my messy brain. I just put up with everything, not answering every question. Because it is forbidden to speak on the back of my words. Adnan has always told me to keep quiet about these things. And no matter what, I should never tell his parents anything that might hurt them. So even after hearing such insulting words from them, I remained silent. Even today he is no exception.
When the house was full of people, I just came home from varsity. Seeing me, my mother-in-law pointed at me in front of everyone and said,
"She is OK. Even after marriage, he has to study, if he does not go to class, or his stomach does not digest rice. You have to show your face to everyone outside. What my son sees is that he brought this girl home without holding my head. ”
I stood and listened to the words. I wanted to answer the words. But remembering Adnan's words, I could not say anything. When my mother-in-law said again,
“Who will cook at noon? Does anyone notice that everyone in the house is not eating? We didn't marry anyone to go to college. You have to cook. Adnan came back for lunch at noon. You are getting rice and clothes with my son's money, you are also studying. We left out either. Did you start feeding your husband? ”
My words were not tolerated. It felt like the inside was tearing. I don't remember Adnan anymore. I said on my mother-in-law's face for the first time.
"You could have cooked and fed your son if you wanted. If he had such compassion, he would have cooked and fed him. Your daughter-in-law actually cooks and feeds you very carefully. He does not have an account of how much delicious food he cooks. But for the one who is giving you rice and clothes, letting him stay, he could not cook for one day with difficulty. Tell me what it is again. Where your daughter is married, she is also studying. Don't talk about him. Why do you have so many problems with me? I'm not your daughter, that's your son's wife, isn't it? If you were your own daughter, would you say that? ”
Immediately I heard the sound of slapping on my cheek.
“Rude girl. Parents never understood how to talk to adults? Speaking on my face, let Adnan come then I will judge you. Now go and cook and save us all. ”
When my mother-in-law slapped my cheek in front of everyone and said the words, I unknowingly felt a drop of water in the corner of my eye.
Sitting in the kitchen cooking and thinking. How beautiful the days before the wedding were, how fascinating the days were. What Adnan has done for me. Before marriage he promised me that after marriage I will not have any problem in my studies. I sat on the wedding pedestal before finishing my studies on his words. Even though he kept his word, now I know why my family life seems unbearable. Go to class after cooking in the morning, come back after class and cook again. Now it seems that the girls were born to push the stove in the kitchen. They have no right to do anything big after finishing their education
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Hi there, I think you have a lots of she/he switched up on the text... I understood it, but from the logic it sounds that you might have switched a couple of them...
If so, give it a go to correct them, it would make it easier for reading, the already so hard story to grasp. And good luck, never give up.