how do you define success? money? money is good, no doubt. it solves many problems. but it does not guarantee a happy life. the key to a happy life is to understand who you are and what you REALLY want - many people didn't know the answer to this question all their lives. it is not easy finding the answer. I like a saying in particular: there are a million kinds of mishaps in the world, but only one kind of happy life - something like that. hope you find yours soon.