lol well even I am guilty of wanting things done speedily, but I believe patience is still the biggest virtue humans should possess.
Steemit is the perfect example. I've been trying to grow organically which means make friends but that hasn't worked so well (maybe people don't want to be friends with me...lol). All the same I know it's just a matter of time
You need to keep trying, because you cannot make it on Steemit without friends. No matter what you write and how good you are, you cannot rely on that alone as there's simply too much content and few people manage to read more than their friends's posts. It's a pity, but we have to face facts.