Every person is a person. Personality in different categories. Why personality is so different and sometimes opposite locations in the human hierarchy?
Yes, because personality is a complex interacting biological, social and psychological properties of the person. The basic elements of personality is character and temperament. These properties characterize a person and are part of it. And it is these elements of identity affect the place and importance of man, which it has in society.
Temperament is a stable set of psychophysiological characteristics of the person. The basis of the temperament is the speed and frequency of occurrence of psycho-physiological processes, psychological stability, mental activity. Important for determining personality type plays a temperament.
In addition to the temperament personality shapes and even in nature. The character - set of sustainable and fundamental properties of the person which determine his relationship with others, behavior, Outlook on life.
Character-building is greatly influenced by the society surrounding people. Unfortunately, it's not always a positive effect on the individual. Many simply can not understand the person and try to "remake" it, some condemn, lower self-esteem. As a result, formed a weak mind and inability to live in society. Sometimes these tests form the solid person, able to overcome any difficult situation. But no matter how strong or weak a person, society always leaves her mark.
Using some psychological techniques, you can learn not to succumb to the influence of others:
- First and foremost, you need to always have an opinion. You need to clearly define your life principles.
- Defining your principles, you must clearly and consistently to follow them.
- It is important to determine what you want from life, what is more important - career or family, friends or something else.
- Do not try to please everyone and be nice to everyone. In the end, so you can lose yourself trying to be like everybody wants.
- Don't let yourself be manipulated. Avoid those people who put pressure on the pity or resort to blackmail.
And most important - don't go on about social stereotypes, which is a lot.
Remember, no one owes nothing. Any person is a person. Human life basically depends on it.