Yes, I remember your post about women, I recall saying something about my wife and our courtship. I too am lacking in self-confidence, which has caused me to be flustered talking to women I'm attracted to (at the initial stages, that is; I can talk to @countrylover just fine, apart from my concussion symptoms ).
Yes, I would agree that resisting a married woman is best. If she's not honoring her vows, then how can she honor you?
Very good advice. Thank you.