For me, not lossing in the shape is apply the golden rule!Interesting concept what you call the Golden Rule, it is not easy try to empathize with everybody but "stop" "think" and apply this rule is the best action anyone can do, probably if the other side is attacking the golden rule action will disarm this person and you could change the situation inmmediatlly. I am sure this is the best way, try to empathize and do what we wait from others. Thanks for share! Please, more post like this, I vote and fallow you! try my post and comment if you like https://steemit.com/ego/@marceladiomede/what-is-ego-for-you-for-me-ego-is-losing-myself-in-the-shape
Yes this is a good point and does happen surprisingly often. Thanks for mentioning it!