I do not know how many people would accept this but I think it is 100% true. The first post I made on this topic got wiped off I don’t know how that happened but am trying to get some words back together.
A woman in the heart of her home is like shoots of the olive and the man is the water that freshens and makes the olive grow, glow and blossom. Hence if a man makes a woman happy, happy home would he get.
Most men does not know how to treat a good woman but for those who do... kudos and shout out to you. So many times I have wondered why in the past or might still be happening, why women were considered insignificant. I shake my head because women play a vital role in helping run the home while the man provide for the daily bread, although these days the man does not do that alone but the man remains the head of the home.
Hardly would you find a wife who is free doing nothing. It’s either she is nursing a child, have a job, run around the chores and make foods for the home. Well thank God for nannies who comes to their rescue to help and save them from breaking down.
You can not give a woman pains and hurt her then expect to have a peaceful home, it’s just not possible. The reason being that when you show her love she is good, when you hurt her just be ready to leave at the top of the roof, when you care and respect her expect her love like no man's business. It therefore happens that you get what you sow in the life of your woman and that would determine a happy home or not. I also think this is the way life operates generally, people get confortable and are peaceful around those who show and treat them with greater level of importance and love.
However, what ever a woman is that she will get to impact on the children, if not 100% but above 50%. So every man should look for a good woman or be good to the women they find and if you have found yours treasure her.
Have you wondered why women call their spouses ‘baby’? I guess in the real sense of the word men are babies, not in the bad light though...haha. This can be liken to the fact that Men are taken care of, cooked for, checked on and looked after by their wives, no wonder he will have to leave his mother and his father and cling to his wife because she will turn to the new parent.
Anyways I don’t think a good woman has ever complained about her responsibility as the mother of the marriage except that if she is not well treated, appreciated and loved for her hard work. All she needs are words of encouragement and support because every good woman know her duty and way around the home.
What do you do to maintain happiness in your home.
compliment her all the time
Tell her how wonderful she is doing, how proud you are of her and how easy she has made life to be for the family. All these things makes a good woman understand that her man is behind her and that he is seeing the effort she is making in the home.
Love her and accept her for who she is.
If she has accepted do be with you, then you must accept to be with her. It’s not easy after all she does, still struggle to look good for you. That alone is a bonus. There are men who body shame their wives and would not want to show them off to the world because they feel she is not as beautiful as before or her body is not as perfect as it used to be. What where you expecting in the first place? Do you think she is a mannequin? O no I guess not. So please accept her and if you feel the need to change somethings then talk to her about it and help her through that journey.
Remind her always that she is the best
Every woman loves hearing that she is the best thing that has ever happened to you. Tell her always, tell her because no one can do it like she does it. She is the best version of herself and that needs to be appreciated . Tell her she cooks the best meal, she is the best woman in the world and trust me you would have a happy woman around you.
Conclusion
Every marriage or relationship needs understanding, love is not enough but understanding your spouse goes a long way to keeping the relationship smooth and running. This will also help the children because a happy and comfortable home helps to shape the behaviour and mentality of children towards life. This will lead them through till they also find someone they can love and care for too.
Let us appreciate our mothers , wives and women. Without them the world would really be a boring place.
Thank you for reading. You can also add what you feel makes a woman happy for a happy home down at the comments it will be well appreciated as it enhances learning and knowledge.
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They say, "Happy wife, happy life," but I sure as hell ain't figured out how to keep a crazy woman happy!
Haha... I guess you still have to study and find out what gets her happy... everyone is awesome but you have to find that which makes them awesome. It could be that past experiece has made her crazy, then you have to calm that fire and assure her that you are different.
It is the little things that count. Just like you have mentioned showing appreciation and giving compliments; giving gifts would go on a long way in keeping the home. I also think all these attributes should be shown by the couple and family members to each other and not one sided.
Great post!
Very well said dear one. I also believe that too. It then means that while women recieve love they should reciprocate it too. Thank you very much for dropping that vital message
Yeah crazy women makes house while happy women makes homes , cos home is said to be sweet.
Post resteem @japfive
Thank you for the resteem. Love is unconditional, which ever one you fall in love wuth crazy or not you can always be that man that drives that crazy her into a sweet and lovable woman.
If everyone lives the crazy who would they end up with...lol. thanks for stopping by.
If everyone is happy, marriage works. Both partners deserve some happiness to make it work.
You made a great point there. It then means that both being happy contribute to more togetherness and love right?... right. Thank you for this.
Oh yeah. Let the love and happiness flow.
Nice
No need for additional words, you just said it all and you somehow linked to who @ogoowinner wrote some days back, words of encouragement (praising someone) goes a long way
Yes my friend. It makes them know that their effort is well appreciated. Thats why everyone has to learn that... even complimenting people you do not know on the road is good and advisable.
However, the strength of a woman increases when ever she is appreciated, she tends to do more.
Hmmm..!
Is that so?
Now I know
Where I can find a heppy woman? 😍
You can find her anywhere... just let your heart do the finding.
Thanks brother for ur advice 😀😁😂
@adly.jailani it's not a brother.
Haha green... I didnt know what to say to that.😀
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@gloglo hi there, ah i woke up this morning with a sweet belly after reading this, infact i feel like getting married this morning, thank you for sharing 🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌
😀😀 do you need me to send down a pastor right away?? Well I know you already know that you have to wait for the right time.
In fact please do, immediately.
Where I can find a heppy woman? 😍
Great dear
There is no love without forgiveness, and there is no forgiveness without love.
You are so right... forgiveness and letting things go is everything. Most can't thats why they do not make it or last for a long time.
Understanding is the key in any relationship. With it, people in relationships can attain great heights. Well said @gloglo.
This piece is just "beautiful" And yes, appreciation goes a long way in boosting your woman's Strength and most especially her ego.
@gloglo this made my day.
"Never underestimate the strenght of a woman" You nailed it girl.