when you laugh for not crying. When you pretend to be well and you go by just to see yourself stronger.

in #love7 years ago

One of the great themes of seduction strategies after seduction, that is, of stable relationships, is when, for reasons of life in general, a stable couple has to separate for periods of months onwards, evidently , the absence of a person with whom a significant percentage of time of daily life is invested, such as the couple, generates the possibility of other activities. These separations provide the opportunity for the two members of the couple to reconnect with friends, meet new people, advance pending projects and, most importantly, learn to value and respect each other's individual psychological and physical space. By the time the separation ends, the relationship will have more space and the individuality of each member of the couple will be better lived and shared with the other.

Self-knowledge When a change of everyday life is so strong, it generates a lot of questions and reflections. These reflections what they do is generate learning about our own emotions. What are the most frequent learnings? It is common that one begins to have news of how he handles his emotions in the face of separation; one also learns to miss the other person in an appropriate way, in a positive way; another important learning is about how priorities are being managed (inside and outside the couple) before separation and how they will be handled from now on.

Knowledge of the couple. That's right, a separation is also an opportunity to know what are the tools that couples have. Every new situation brings with it psychological demands, these have to do with the quality of the link, the ability to postpone the achievement of expectations due to the absence of communication and contact. The separation within the relationship also provides tools to handle new situations: ability to generate agreements, respect for the space of the other, knowledge of the management of your partner's emotions in relation to a separation or temporary loss. The learnings are many. Many times we associate missing someone as something negative. This feeling is normal because we associate it with the absence of the other, with the "lack" of the other. There is a way to live this feeling properly: PLEASE NOTE THAT IF YOU ARE STRANGING SOMEONE IS BECAUSE YOU HAVE A STRANGER. Enjoy surprising yourself in your life, góza when you call that person or when you find it "online". Feel the feeling of having someone to miss.

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