The ability to conduct dialogue provides a union that contributes to overall progress.
The current economy clearly demonstrates two important facts. First, in our day, the maximum result can be achieved by the least effort and the minimum number of people. Secondly, collaborations, alliances and teamwork have a much greater effect than a single game.
In simple terms, 3 geniuses will quickly come up with a powerful robot that will perform the necessary task better and sooner than 1000 people. The industrial century has long passed, now productivity is directly dependent on efficiency. And efficiency - including how key people (and all people) learn to negotiate among themselves.
At the beginning of the last century, most issues were solved from a position of strength. At the beginning of the current - people began to negotiate more often. Yes, force is still used, but no longer as a preventive measure, but more to demonstrate and reinforce his words in the dialogue. If it seemed to you that this paragraph could be including something global, it did not seem to you.
Effective interpersonal, interstate and, possibly, intergalactic relations in a civilized society are always built around the same scenario. Dialogue - Union - Progress.
Dialogue.
- Hello, I'm interested in option A.
- Hello, I am interested in option B.
The initial position is quite clear. Most likely, A and B are two completely opposite options. And no one is going to change these options, yielding to the other side. The parties to the talks so far have nothing in common.
- It is important for us that the functions A1, A2, A3 are necessary.
- And it is important for us that the conditions B1, B2, B3 always be.
The main accents become clear. What, according to the parties, is the most important and obligatory. When the source data is clear, the main points are clear, you can proceed to the solution of the problem. Namely - to specific proposals.
- We offer option C, it includes the conditions A1, A2 and B2, B3.
- Insist on option D, it contains the functions A2, A3 and B1, B2.
Variants of proposals are becoming clear. They are not identical, they do not meet all the requirements of both parties, but they contain an important detail - a common element for which you can already agree.
- Obviously, we have little in common, but both sentences contain functions A2 and B2. We propose for the time being to adopt an intermediate variant E, which includes conditions A2 and B2.
- Intermediate version E is adopted; for the remaining points we will decide in the next round of negotiations.
The parties came to a partial, but joint decision. Now they have something in common. This general obligation obliges them to abide by certain rules and to act hand in hand in the interests of this agreement. The presence of common interests and the absence of conflict allows the parties to enter into alliance.
The Union obliges the parties to pay more attention to the dialogues and significantly reduces the likelihood of solving the problem from a position of strength. This strengthens the path to mutual respect, peace and kindness, and also provides a positive dynamic in general. A positive trend is progress.
And progress is moving forward.
That is, in fact, the ability to conduct a dialogue, to agree on difficult issues, at least partially to find common parties, allows us to come to an alliance. The Union, in turn, brings the parties together on some issues. Now the sides are not opposite, but adjacent. This allows you to effectively move forward, develop, initiate new dialogues and seek new joint solutions.
So, several individuals can develop a positive strategy that will eventually make life easier for millions of people on the planet. And this path should begin, of course, with yourself.
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