In relationship we have to look after many things because it will decide our life and we cannot get another life partner after our marriage and this may happen after divorce.
My thoughts are different because in relationship person should not look whether she or he is beautiful or handsome but look after his or her nature and how he or she is reacting with other people.
As i am boy i will use word she to express i am in relationship as i will look whether she is having sympathy for other. I will be looking whether she is angry in talking with someone. Because some girls are angry in front of boys without understanding their nature and just they are simply getting in problems.
I will look out the maturity or girl whether she is happy in her life or simply dealing with small things or she is mature enough to be in a relationship.