I used the intersex example because as a nurse I have worked with patients with this condition as well as those who are lgbt, transsexual, etc. One person i knew was someone in the military. This person was born with parts from both genders and hated that but served honorably. Now that person is living a very happy life once getting the "wrong parts" removed. sorry about the vagueness but I am still responsible for patient confidentiality.
My point is that a inter-sexed person with "ambiguous genitalia" can be treated much like trans-people in that their condition is not understood. They still serve. I wish i could explain the joy I have seen in the eyes of someone when they feel that they are as they should have been. I know many productive and hardworking people who you would never guess where transsexual that you would also see as fit to serve in the military. I have also not know of one person who decides to get reassignment surgery because they are bored or want attention. I am sure there may be an example somewhere. I do feel that standing up and being comfortable with yourself is heroic by the way. I also do not feel this is the new norm. The fact that there are so many people who are not familiar with the issues of these groups is the issue. They are judged without being completely understood.
I do think about transitioning and such and the time it can take but if a person who has fully transitioned and is deemed fit for service wanted to keep this country safe would you then deny them that? What if they have served honorably and are not fat and do not have a physical disability, and then you find out? Do you point to a few pages in a book, tell them they must be ill and have to go.
I did not get to join the military. I am a civilian but I do serve my patients, a large amount of them are veterans, and I am proud to do so. I will always advocate for any patient and I will always try to help in the understanding between them and those who have objection to them.
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