I'm not being rude but I am accusing you of being hypocritical in your statement because you do show partiality, nothing more. I think as Christians, we should not just say words, but do them as well.
I'm not sure what you mean "not going down to your level expectation?". What is my level?
If you have nothing against me as you say, then respect me. Shunning isn't a sign of respect. You have the right to do so, but don't tell me that it's with love and respect.
If I have wronged you, then talk to me. If you just want to ignore me, then don't claim to love without partiality. That's all.