I love monogamy too, unfortunately my ex wife didn't love it as much as I did and started cheating on me after five years together. So yeah I didn't think I had to worry, until I did. After we split up I didn't even remember how to date people because I had gotten so used to having her. After I finally moved on and found someone new to try monogamy once again with, of course my ex wife tried to come back into my life. I don't know if I'll ever enjoy monogamy the same as before because of the doubt that has been added to the equation by what happened with my ex. So yeah monogamy is great, unless you pick the wrong person. It sounds like you found the right one for you though. I do disagree with what you said about waiting until marriage to have sex though, because if you wait until then to find out you are not sexually compatible, well that's an important part of any relationship and in my opinion you should know before you get married if you are going to even enjoy having sex with each other. That doesn't mean sex has to be any less special. I just think waiting until marriage is a bit extreme. I don't think having sex on the first date is a great idea either though. Somewhere in between maybe. But what do I know, not much obviously because I failed at my monogamous relationship. I do agree the world would be better off with more monogamy and not less. Thanks for sharing, and I wish you and your significant other many more years of happiness together, and congratulations on finding the right one.
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First off, thanks so much for watching the video and checking me out. It means a lot to me!
Don't be too hard on yourself, it sounds like you held your end of the deal up.
I agree, and thanks for sharing.