If you don't hit children, those children won't be hit by you. Neat, huh? ;) Rather than obeying an illegitimate authority figure out of fear and learning that might makes right, they'll follow your example and seek your guidance voluntarily while learning logic, critical thinking, negotiation and creative problem solving skills.
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@piedpiper, children do not always and only directly do from and by and through imputation from what they see parents and others do. The world is not that simple and I know people want to blame the parents and others and say that is how it works but this is not how it works and it is not that simple and we can do our best to help children but we cannot guarantee outcomes because destiny are ultimately up to each individual and person and kid.
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Kids do better when they learn critical thinking and everything else from people, especially from their own parents, and the sooner the better too. Kids do better, I agree, when they can have better examples and everything from people and especially parents.
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You need to hit people something. It is very important. That does not mean it is a fear thing. It is a love thing. Please reconsider this thing. When you do not hit, bad things happen. The whole thing is not a simple thing to describe. There might be exceptions.
No, hitting others is never love. It is assault. It's very simple.
@piedpiper, you live in a dream world that is incomplete. There are books and documentaries and people and evidence and prove and so many people and many things and history and psychology and theology and anthropology and sociology and culture and demographics and the DNA / genetics / genes and many things disagree with what you are saying? Deep inside you know I speak the truth but you were lied to about these things and you have held to your way of thinking concerning these things for so long but there is a world out there beyond your horizon and it involves LOVE NOT FEAR.
Dream world? Actually it's my real world that I live in every day. I have high standards for myself and my friends. I have no room in my life for people that assault helpless children.
@piedpiper is not educated and has no experience with real people. That is very sad. He or she lives in a dream world and denies that. Very sad. Very very sad. You automatically call discipline as assault.
yes, hitting people that have not attacked you is assault. Check the dictionary. I didn't invent the language but I am using it correctly. It's disgusting that you want to hit children so much.
I have no experience with people? I'm a real estate developer in charge of a private community so I have more experience with people than most. It is because of this experience that I have no patience for violent people.
You are a fool. I am not talking about assault. I am talking about discipline. There are differences. Your ideas are clouded with your brain with what you think is real. You do not know how to train and disciple people well enough it seems. Sometimes, in life, you must use different tactics and strategies in unique situations. Not every kid is the same. Too often, we over-medicate kids and that is bad. How many drugs do you give kids? How often do you buy drugs because you think kids are too hyper?
Please grow up because you are mistaken.
@piedpiper, what you are saying is dumb. You are very mistaken. And you refuse to listen. You are so closed minded and that is very sad. You are too stubborn. Parents should hit kids like you.