Children's behavior towards adults

11 year old son Rifat. Rifat’s's grandfather lived in their home. Grandfather took him to school & brought him;He loves Rifat so much. But Rifat could not tolerate her grandfather. Speaking with them, sometimes quizzing.His Parents prohibited him but he do not listen to them .

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Not only grandparents or grandparents, children and adolescents with family and outsiders often take an unhealthy rude behavior. Do not give proper respect. Grand parents are unhappy with the words and behavior of children, but they do not remember these things by their affection. But sometimes the matter goes to the level of bitterness that different family complications are created. Children and adolescents behave badly from the usual behavior of social behavior .
This kind of misconduct most seen with older people-

Do not show courtesy: Do not give salam, do not leave the chair for them to sit, dance them in the table or sofa in front of them, play high sound during their rest.
Mankind: Mistake them with various irresponsible sentences. Their walking and facial
Regrets: Talking with a grateful mood with grandparents or other elderly members. Each question shakes forth, giving a rebuke in front of others, asking to leave the house and move to
- Trivia: make them always disgusted. They 'do not understand anything' - have such an attitude. In words, it is said to be unprofessional.
Negative speech or physical assault. In particular cases of abuse and physical injury, pushing etc.

Why does this happen?

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The behavior of children is mainly reflected in the surrounding environment and surroundings. So, to understand why children behave like this with the elders, they need to look at the surrounding environment. Generally, the reasons children do this are:

If Parents mock or criticize their grandparents in front of the child. In normal conversation and
- If parents or any of them behave indecent behavior with the elders.
Children learn these from different TV shows.
Initially, if the child does not teach courtesy and does not respect elders.
If there is strong marital dispute between parents.
If there is a mental disorder with behavioral disorders in the child.
Sometimes a child may be uncomfortable even by a senior member.
In the future, if there is such a behavior in the child, then there may be various mental problems, including personality problems, future child and social life of the child.

What to do to prevent the child from behaving like this –

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The child will have to practice sainthood since childhood
Parents will never criticize senior members (grandparents, grandparents) in front of a child, do not mock the adults in front of the child or do not treat them badly.
Senior members must present their past life, their contributions and achievements in front of the child. Praise grandparents, grandmothers in front of the baby. Try to celebrate their marriage anniversary, birthday, give them gifts through baby.
Take the views of both the child and the elderly when making a family decision.
Avoid bargaining disputes in front of the baby.
You have to try to take grandparents or grandparents and children together while traveling.
Explain to them whether they are harassing the child or the behavior of grandparents.
Avoid children from seeing this behavior in adult TV programs or dramas.
In order to understand whether there is a mental disorder of mental disorders in the child's condition, it is necessary to take expert advice.

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