PostsCommentsPayoutseatpraysex (38)in #sex • 7 years agoWhen to Disclose an Open RelationshipOne evening I was hanging out with my FWB (I'll call him Sean), several of his friends, and my husband Ben. One of Sean's newer acquaintances knew that Sean and I were casual…eatpraysex (38)in #sex • 7 years agoWhy do we have sex?You'd think the answer to this question would be obvious. After all, let's face it -- sex is a biological imperative. And if it didn't feel so good, we humans probably wouldn't…eatpraysex (38)in #sex • 7 years agoPersonal Story of an Open Relationship, Pt. 2I've put a lot of thought into how I should recount my first true extramarital sexual experience. In the end, I've decided to speak frankly -- and in detail -- about how it…eatpraysex (38)in #sex • 7 years agoThe Beauty of Delayed GratificationI always thought I was a one-marshmallow kid. Back in the 1970s, a scientist ran an experiment with 4-year-olds. He put them in a room with one marshmallow on a plate, then…eatpraysex (38)in #sex • 7 years agoPersonal Story of an Open Relationship, Pt. 1Usually, when people hear you're in an open relationship, they ask one of two questions. If they're polite, the question is "How did y'all decide to do this?" If they're not…eatpraysex (38)in #sex • 7 years agoAll I Really Need to Know I Learned in BedSex is a wonderfully educational experience. Like any other human interaction, you need certain skills and/or mindsets to be successful. On the other hand, its physical and…eatpraysex (38)in #sex • 7 years agoRelationships are messy, so life is messyUsually my posts are a little more polished than this, but in a way those posts are somewhat misleading because sex and relationships are NOT neat, they are NOT organized into…eatpraysex (38)in #relationships • 7 years agoThe Unique Love of an Open RelationshipSometimes, the most fulfilling marital sex is the sex you don't have with your spouse. This is a typical conversation between me and my husband. (The names are fictitious.)…eatpraysex (38)in #sex • 7 years agoThe Fear of TemptationI had a couple of topics in mind for today, but then I came across a New York Times article about Americans and their apprehension at being alone with members of the opposite…eatpraysex (38)in #sex • 7 years agoCasual Sex & Power DynamicsDISCLAIMER 1: This is not a man-bashing posting. I love men and having sex with them. DISCLAIMER 2: I am writing as a heterosexual female. I cannot speak to other people's…eatpraysex (38)in #sex • 7 years agoComing to terms with conflicting feelings on the whole FWB... thingI was going to get up this morning and write about what I've learned since starting an open marriage, like I've got it all figured out. Guess what? I don't. And that's okay.…eatpraysex (38)in #introduceyourself • 7 years agoGo ahead, be virtuous and don't click on a post that has "sex" in the titleI won't tell you much about myself, for 2 reasons: 1) I don't think my age, my hometown, or my job are of any real interest to anyone. 2) I live in the Deep South, and I don't…