Ability to postpone pleasure

in #ability6 years ago

The needs of the newborn are at the top of the list of what they are doing at the time. Moreover, these needs are vital. He will be fed to the cunt, he cleaned the butt, he will fall asleep with friends. Otherwise, networks will cry until the need is met.

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As it grows, the needs vary and increases. However, the child's infantile torment places its place in the most brutal criticism. Especially if the child's wishes are not met after the age of 2, the mother-in-law always shows the despair of the future. Because this child will learn when and how to wait.

One of the most important ways to prepare a child for life and disappointments is if I can postpone my pleasure. Human nature is egocentric and impatient. Then I will learn to wait and delay my happiness. But if it is taught.

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Delaying the pleasure is not an innate ability. The frontal lobe of the brain that manages such skills has not yet developed. Therefore, it is unfair to wait for the child to be patient and mature. How to teach is hidden in social life. Most children want to share with their parents when something comes to mind.


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