OK to my point - we all have or use certain benchmarks, tools, definitions or values etc. we use to 'self-value-measure' ourselves - here are just a few to consider. Why not ask yourself how you measure yourself or how does this area influence your life - could be an interesting exercise! PS: I'm not going into a lot of detail on these - they are just meant to be emotional or mental triggers to get you thinking or self-evaluating.
Here's just a brief summary of a few of the more common ones;
-Who you are - Your birth date, where you grew up, education history, how you were raised, siblings, how you were treated as a child - etc.
-What you have accomplished - Education, degrees, inventions, businesses started, competitions, climbed mount Everest or done nothing significant - etc.
-Memberships - clubs, organizations, civic clubs, community organizations, school clubs or belong to nothing - etc.