I wrote a big reply to this last night but I guess steemit was acting up and it didnt get posted. I was afraid to open up about my situation sometime back ago too. I still feel the same in front of my family because I don't want to upset them and secondly, I don't want them to judge my husband or change their behavior with them cos in my society, the family of the groom is always on his side and that of the bride is on hers. Opening up here has been liberating and comforting. I hope you are through with the rocky phase of your life and feel better now. Lots of love for you.
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Thank you much, lots of love back to you. My relationships are going much better now but I think there is always going to be a side of my life that will remain rocky to some degree. I feel much better now though. In many ways I view things I go through as a great blessing and I feel much better at dealing with the things that happen now.
There is a certain side of my life that is going to be rocky too. I think life is supposed to be like that. You can never have a perfect relationship or a perfect life. Like with my husband and I, there are many things we disagree on and don't approve of in one another but if see the other person as a whole, we want to live with one another. So there are things you may not agree on or would like to change about, but that's not within our control. What's in our control is our decision and we have to take it based on a number of factors so if we are getting close to what we aspire to have, i think it is fine to opt for that option. :) At least, this is what worked out for me.