All your words ring true for me, yet I particularly resonate with 'don't set an ultimatum'.
Once we realize that Time is an illusion, we see that there is no past or future, only the NOW. Setting an ultimatum means we decide for ourselves to intentionally replace our positive feelings for negative feelings from one moment to another. By clinging to Time, we try to make the illusion real.
...another good reason for not setting an ultimatum.👍