Your explanation About complaints from Laura* is very wise.
And for laura I also want to convey, indeed in a relationship is not always running as smoothly as desire.
Sometimes in a relationship that one of them be super protection against what want to do. If that sounds good to you, do it. But if the opposite then leave. The point of communication must be maintained so that the relationship is not messy.
Do not bury all the problems, because it can be a time bomb that when it comes time to destroy yourself, he and other dear ones.