RE: Which is better, a stable relationship or a painful one? What would you prefer?

Years ago people worked thru their problems.
Family remained close .... Times have changed people take vows yet I do not believe that they actually understand or take them to heart.Divorce is like breaking up...sadly, they do not communicate that is a very big thing.
Also getting married quickly and before marrying they do not discuss important issues before making that commitment.
Discussions on how to raise children,finance and religion.Sadly many young people confuse lust with love .
You must like this person and love this person Loving and being" in love " again a very big issue! Sadly rushing into marriage hurts many people and families. Many people cannot be alone ,they are not comfortable with themselves so they seek out people so they are never alone. If you do not love yourself and are not comfotable with yourself how can you even consider getting involved with another You have to want a relationship....not need one...there is a huge difference between the two.If you have communication,trust and attraction & passion and enter into a commitment having already discussed the issues I mentioned there is a very very good chance that the relationship is strong enough to withstand almost anything. Accepting each other for who they truly are means a lot and we all need personal space as well .So with all I have stated ,I believe yoir answers can be found
@nomad-magus I advice you a stable relationship.