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I like "meticulous" more than "obsessive" even though the latter is probably just as if not more true XD

No worries, moments of apathy happen in life just like moments of insane busy :)

No interaction I have had with you over the past 7 years has ever made me think you re 'obsessive' {frown} ....

I'm simultaneously relieved and concerned about what obsessive is if I'm not it XD