Hello Air-Clinicians & Friends,
This is a deep and important question for a healthy sex life. The truth is that no matter how close you and your partner may be, if none of you know how to initiate sex then it may not happen.
There is definitely some art and science to this. Many a couple have spent countless hours looking at each other in bed but either too nervous or too clueless to begin the process.
The society sort of expects that men initiate sex even though both partners desire it. Our advice is that anyone can really initiate the process. In fact it should be simpler for a woman to do theoretically only if she would be confident enough to do it.
No matter who does it, the question now is "how?"
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Well, obviously, both partners have to be emotionally and physically ready.
The initiator should create the mood; not necessarily a sexual mood but a relaxed atmosphere, so everyone lets go of any tension.
I think after that you can start to build up from the little things like gently stroking the hair/face/beards to...
wait, I'm not even sure everyone here is an adult.
...Oh well, to gentle kisses and a ready and willing partner will almost always reciprocate at this point.
That's the green light you need. Y'all can now off cloth.
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Lolz. This is a funny take. We are sure everyone reading this is matured enough to understand.👌😉
Well, speaking from the confines of marriage, anyone can initiate it. However study your partner first so as not to be rejected. Some do reject and in the end, the initiator feels less than a whore especially a female
Very useful tips dear!
@air-clinic just like making me talk about sex. @adoore-eu said i should stop describing sex to the peak.
Well, anybody can initiate it.
As for me, with my partner,
Should start with staying very close to each other to rubbing his chests slowly and putting you head close to his heartbeat bringing him up little by little. Proceeding to kisses, i mean deep one depending on whether you really know how to because some kisses can turn person down.
Then to a romantic hug..................This hug can lead to anything....................
Lolx. This is very descriptive. It's easier for women to initiate sex...😉👌👏
Hi guys ,
Haha this is a funny question for me , mostly because I'm still a virgin.
I guess I can talk in the medical point of view 😅😅😅😆😆😆😆 While initiating sex , one must always make sure they have enough protection. Haha what am I even saying... Yes , one must use protection to prevent many many sexually transmitting diseases , and this could damage one's life.. plus the whole thing about getting pregnant too. So it's always a good thing to use condoms.
Hm , I am thinking it can be initiated by doing some grant romantic gesture first , maybe a candle lite dinner or something , then somehow wooe the person , yeah ... Hahah lol idk.. I only know from these romantic comedies.. but I'm thinking it's like that.
Lolx. Hilarious !! Sometimes it's bound to happen in non-formal settings too😉😉. And protection is important. At least you have an idea👏👏
Hahah yeah
Everything falls back to sexual shame, fear of rejection, feelings of intense anxiety linked to thoughts about what would happen if the attraction is not reciprocated..
ladies were brought up in a way to feel massive shame about their sexuality, thinking that wanting sex or making the first move makes them slutty and at such causing them to pretend not to have high sex drives. I believe once religion stops ruling the moral sphere for society we might even achieve some sort of gender-equality. If guys can over-come the fear of rejection and ladies, feeling slutty when making the first move, they won't even wait to get to the bed before to start pulling each others clothings off.
Lolx. A very naughty take. This may happen someday in a perfect universe where women aren't slutty shamed and men aren't afraid of rejection!👏👏👌
The taboo surrounding sex in our society doesn't allow for proper discourse, even among some couples. Am glad more and more platforms are being set up to encourage these discussions. Sex is too important in marriage not to be discussed
We appreciate your viewpoint but you didn't answer the question posed!
Lol it is deliberate... I have zero experience
Lolx. That's appreciated too. Stay safe! 💝
Very good post sir ....
Well for me, I believe one should be in the mood, and your partner might not be, but you can still get her in the grove, by caressing her or him, saying sweet romantic words to her or him, as the case might be @air-clinic
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