when they are angry, it will tell alot about how they feel or think of you ".
The statement above has been conceived precisely by many as hátred.
What people say about you when they are angry does not always connote hátred, it could be plain anger.
Anger and hátred are two different things.
Anger is a temporary emotional state, triggered by hurtful feeling.
When people are angry, they often say horrible things. So it's important to ask yourself what triggered the outburst before concluding the reaction as háte.
Someone can be angry at you but doesn't háte you, just as someone you love can do things that gets you angry but doesn't mean you háte the person.
On the other hand, hátred is a permanent feeling. The signs are always clear. Someone that harbour hátred will ignore you, get quiet when you come over to the group of people they are talking to, their facial expression is always obvious, they look at you in a way that shows they don't care, they attack you at every opportunity.
When people make statements directed to you out of anger, have time for self appraisal and make amends where necessary. If you don't make amends, continuous unresolved anger can escalate to hátred.
After making amends and the other person doesn't relate towards you positively, that's hátred.
The best action to take is to create boundaries or cut them off. Don't trust.
