HONESTLY THE MOST VALUE CUALITY

in #allsteem7 years ago

Our world has never been a reliable place, the reality is that until now we have been fighting relentlessly against something that seems to be inscribed in our DNA: LIE.

Obviously, no one can be totally sincere in life. There are superfluous things that do not matter to others, things in your personal life that we can not go telling everyone. That's good, it's good to have your own secrets. The problem is when you decide to compromise your word on something important and then let all the crafty demons you carry inside end up with the reputation you were just beginning to build.

We have all missed our word at some point.
Admittedly, I have often betrayed a commitment that I have acquired and I have had to deal with the consequences of it. From losing friends or ruining the trust that people have in me, to having to carry the brand of "unreliable person." I learned hard.

Fortunately it never happened to me in situations of high importance or in projects of magnitude. At the right moment I was able to make the decision to learn from my mistakes and to stop throwing to shit every new goal that I proposed.

Some things that I learned to not miss my word more were:

Learning to say no: engaging in more things that you can embrace will always take you to the brink of stress, and in some, you end up failing or doing it wrong.
Take time to think things over: in order to be able to say no to something, I have to have the foresight to always think things through a couple of times. Seriously, making hot decisions is often not successful. You better get home, take a shower and think if you really are willing to go for that project they propose.
Organize my priorities: when I do not have clear the things for which I want to give all my effort and for which I would, mmmm, but not so much, this will result in my lack of focus for the things that I love and that, in addition, really deserve To get to work.
The world needs trust.

Everyone, even those who contribute to make the world an unreliable place, are hungry to find some corner that gives us some peace of mind.
Politicians, governments, companies, friends and couples. Everyone fails.

It seems that there is no truce ...

In fact, because of this, technologies like Blockchain are born, because humans already accept that we can not trust each other directly and we need a kind of artificial intelligence to complement us.

Yes, I think the same, it is unfortunate that I can not put a Blockchain to your partner. For now ... 😒 😒 😒

The chain of blocks, while an excellent alternative to build trust in many human activities, can never completely replace the need for us, the beloved Homo sapiens, to try to be more honest, transparent and trustworthy.

So...
The idea is that we put into practice every day a little honesty and trustworthiness, believe me, it will benefit you in all areas of your life. Yes. Including Steem (it). This is a place where everything is based on a reputation systems. It is not necessary to scam to grow here, what you need is to give, and give with quality.

Honesty is a very expensive gift, do not expect it from cheap people.
Have you ever had problems with honesty or been involved with someone who can not be trusted at all? I would like to read you about it, see you in the comments

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La honestidad es y seguirá siendo prioridad para muchas personas, incluyéndome. Sin embargo, la confianza hacia otros es un tanto complicado; ¿cuántas vemos nos llevamos la desagradable sorpresa de que la persona en quien confiamos ciegamente es la primera en darnos la cuchillada por la espalda? Especialmente en lo que concierne al dinero :(

Así mismo es, gracias por dedicar tu tiempo

Solo dire, que cada quien decide que ser en su vida, esa frase de (no se si el traductor lo hizo bien) "la honestidad es algo muy caro no la esperes de la gente barata" no me gusto, tiendo a creer en cada ser, por que sin duda cada uno tiene algo que dar, y personalmente he sido recompensada con gente que siempre ha dado lo mejor de si y a quien he dado más de lo mejor de mi. Asi que no llamo a nadie gente barata, es solo gente.
Hay que aprender a dar valor a cada ser, hay situaciones donde quizá actuaron mal por alguna circunstancia, pero quienes somos para juzgar? Me encanta que hables de que debemos ser honestos, eso es total, es un valor que se debe resaltar, aceptar nuestros errores y siempre ser capaces de asumir retos que estemos en capacidad de cumplir con alma y corazón. Gracias por tus opiniones las aprecio, y comparto algunas. Un abrazo compañero.

Je je, espero pueda leer mi español, es que escribir en ingles se me complica, es maravilloso que manejes dos idiomas.. sabes alguno más?

Muchas gracias por tu opinión y dedicar tu tiempo a leer mi post

Si lo tradujo bien, es una conocida frase de Warren Buffett: "La honestidad es un regalo muy caro, no lo esperes de gente barata". Él es un experto en finanzas y uno de los hombres más ricos del mundo y esa frase fue dicha de manera circunstancial cuando tuvo algunos problemas con sus socios. Pero en parte yo creo que tiene algo de verdad, porque cuando inicias proyectos de inversión debes tener ojo clínico para confiar en la gente que escoges, me pasó también. Ya en el ámbito personal, asumo que gente barata se le puede llamar a gente con escasos valores o que lastima a lo demás, o como tú dices @marpa, no se le da la importancia necesaria y son solo gente

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buen post, sin palabras

La honestidad como prioridad es algo muy bonito ya que refleja confianza y credibilidad.

Es difícil confiar en las personas, me paso algo horrible hace algunos años, por dar toda mi confianza y creer que esa persona era sincera y honesta, pero la avaricia no tiene límites, no conoce de honestidad, amistad....en si, solo me utilizo para lograr su cometido

Porque ingles no entiendo

La honestidad un pilar fundamental en todo! Gracias por compartir @mrgabrielc

Buen post

Buen post..... y tienes toda la razon... La honestidad es un regalo muy caro, no lo esperes de la gente barata. He conocido tanta gente deshonesta que muchas veces he perdido la fe en la humanidad.

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a veces no confías, peo lo debes hacer por interese propios. lo digo por que, por mis animales rescatado me toca, de lo contrario me alejarían de muchos y no sabría la suerte que correrían en el futuro.

muy buen post