I completely agree with you. I was bullied when I was in high school because I was not as rich as my classmates and it was a horrible experience. I cried to my parents like every night because of it. My cousins, who were less fortunate than me, used to visit my family every summer and I remember acting like a I was a big shot for studying in a good high school and ordered them around the house. I don't know where I got that authority but I felt more privileged than my cousins so I thought it was ok, without even thinking how I felt when others bullied me in school. Of course, now that I am an adult, I treat my cousins well. But my point is, we tend to only focus on our own suffering without considering whether we are already causing pain to others. Thus, we have to accept that we are all bullies.