the interesting part is that even those who claim to be charging "alone", do it at least with one dear individual. Also many introverts that claim to recharge "alone' after they spend some time alone studying, they want to go out and meet other people for a change.
my point is that it varies depending on the way we engage with situations in life such as employment and exams rather than "who we really are".
Yeah true. I also wonder if maybe trauma, especially childhood trauma, can cause one's personality to fragment and then the fragment is forced to make abstractions just to be able to cope.
I heard this one quote once by a famous psychologist. He said, "One must be sympathetic with people who live in a false world, because the real one is intolerable."