Writers and artists of all kinds get these kinds of requests ... constantly. It's like people think because it's easy for us (because they sure can't do it!!), we won't mind the imposition -- usually for free. Or they think that because we enjoy our work that we'll be happy to squeeze it into an already busy schedule "as a favor."
I could translate all your examples over into the writing work I do and see my own history reflected there. (When I took up a recent curation project for a group, I was told "it will only take about 15 - 20 minutes a day." In fact, I spend between 4 and 6 HOURS a day putting it together because I take real pride in anything that carries my name.)
Counselors and website owners get this kind of attitude from people, too -- especially when it comes to payment. After all, counselors are only "giving advice" ... and website owners are thought to be so vain and hungry for attention that just getting visitors to click on their site makes their day.
The truth is, we have bills to pay and families to support and other obligations and interests that comprise a fulfilling life ... and that's a big part of why we do what we do. If it's not worth it to you to help us in that effort, it's certainly not worth it to us to make room for you and give other accommodations to fit your "budget."
Not only that, but the ones you do a favor for will be the very ones who turn out to give you the most trouble. If you can learn this early in your career as a writer, an artist, a musician or a counselor ... you'll save yourself boatloads of grief in the future.
I read a lot of them. Your humor was charming, your honesty refreshing ... and, sweet child, I feel your pain!!!@zord189 this was one of the best posts I've read in a long, long time -- and
OMG! So much truth in everything u said here. I really agree on
That's what they always say ey?
I believe as writers and artists, through experiences and trainings, the skills are already there. With these skills, we are able to do things fast and efficiently, that is why the results we produce in 30 mins is far diff from those who aren't in this field. Not because it is easy to being with...
We'll just have to watch each other's back from now on. :)