There is no reason for being disrespectful. I don't see the point with this, except that I was about to totally ignore you.
Scientists are in general open to new ideas, but when these ideas are proven wrong, they are wrong. Current paradigms and current paradigms because:
- they explain data;
- they can be used to make predictions and can potentially be falsified.
Until they are proven wrong, there is no reason to throw them away. You can of course have alternative paradigms, but they need to satisfy the points 1 and 2 above.
From your post, I guess you have not understood fully what the Standard Model is. Because it is much more than being just descriptive. It relies on deep principles and works damned well with respect to data. In addition, there are many predictions that are just waiting to be tested. We cannot say the same for all the other theories you mentioned.
Throw your textbooks away and take a walk in the park. It'll be the best education you'll ever get. It's all within.
It is not a matter of textbooks. It is just a matter of science and how to do science correctly.