A very good take on the whole instant gratification angle. Another layer that could be added, and one that I feel you're already making without mentioning it overtly, is with integration.
If we fly past steps 4-8 and go straight to 9, we will miss out on valuable experience along the way, and fail to properly integrate the lessons needed in order maintain our position.
The heights we reach become a false plateau, one in we have very little footing, and invariably loose our balance on. The folly of instant gratification, as you allude to.
It creates a false of achievement and merit, which is the forbearer of the entitled ego.
Good piece.